Sweetheartt Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Just came back from the mall after buying a few summer outfits on sale. I was outside waiting for the bus and this guy catcalls me right, so I did try to ignore him but he came over anyway and told me how cute and soft my feet looked. I thanked him and smiled but then he asked me my name and then told me upfront that he likes what he sees, yada yada. I was just so stunned I didn't say anything then he says he wants to take me to bed! I was like OMG what?!?! Anyway I just said I dont think so & thank god the bus came so I could get away lol. It felt so weird but at the same time I was sorta flattered & I guess because he was a little older and kinda cute? Idk but I never had a guy just be so blunt like that. It kinda made me feel scared but also this strange little excitement in my tummy lol. What do you ppl think? Was this guy just a perv & a creep? Has anyone ever dealt w/ this?
samspade Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 He was direct and sexual, and it sort of excited you. Nothing wrong with that. Doesn't mean you'd take him up on it, necessarily. But I sense that you enjoyed his approach and it got your motor running. Maybe you'll see him again and can continue the banter.
Author Sweetheartt Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 He was direct and sexual, and it sort of excited you. Nothing wrong with that. Doesn't mean you'd take him up on it, necessarily. But I sense that you enjoyed his approach and it got your motor running. Maybe you'll see him again and can continue the banter. LOL I doubt it because it was at the mall & I never seen him before. I only got a little excited because of the way he looked at me but I still dont know him so I cant just take him up on the offer. Idk it still felt kinda like a little creepy tho.
KathyM Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Just came back from the mall after buying a few summer outfits on sale. I was outside waiting for the bus and this guy catcalls me right, so I did try to ignore him but he came over anyway and told me how cute and soft my feet looked. I thanked him and smiled but then he asked me my name and then told me upfront that he likes what he sees, yada yada. I was just so stunned I didn't say anything then he says he wants to take me to bed! I was like OMG what?!?! Anyway I just said I dont think so & thank god the bus came so I could get away lol. It felt so weird but at the same time I was sorta flattered & I guess because he was a little older and kinda cute? Idk but I never had a guy just be so blunt like that. It kinda made me feel scared but also this strange little excitement in my tummy lol. What do you ppl think? Was this guy just a perv & a creep? Has anyone ever dealt w/ this? I'd chalk it up to perv and a creep. Back in my teenage years, when I was destined to take the bus, I got approached by a lot of men while waiting for the bus, and propositioned. One of them even followed me to a McDonalds after I got off the bus and asked if I wanted to pose for nude pictures. Some guys have no sense or class.
Teknoe Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Very direct, up-front creeper with a foot fetish, haha.
Nexus One Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 I'd chalk it up to perv and a creep. Back in my teenage years, when I was destined to take the bus, I got approached by a lot of men while waiting for the bus, and propositioned. One of them even followed me to a McDonalds after I got off the bus and asked if I wanted to pose for nude pictures. Some guys have no sense or class. Ok, the guy who followed you pushed it too far. But if the other guys that approached you only ever got to see you on the bus and/or at the bus stop, then what other options would they have had? Answer me this question. If the only place a guy will ever see you is in the bus or at a bus stop, then what other option does he have according to you? He doesn't know your name, he doesn't know where you live, he doesn't have your number. I'd like to hear some opinions on this from girls/women. What exactly is the problem of approaching a girl/women at a bus stop, especially if the guy has no other options? It's either approach her there or not approach her at all?
Dust Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Just came back from the mall after buying a few summer outfits on sale. I was outside waiting for the bus and this guy catcalls me right, so I did try to ignore him but he came over anyway and told me how cute and soft my feet looked. I thanked him and smiled but then he asked me my name and then told me upfront that he likes what he sees, yada yada. I was just so stunned I didn't say anything then he says he wants to take me to bed! I was like OMG what?!?! Anyway I just said I dont think so & thank god the bus came so I could get away lol. It felt so weird but at the same time I was sorta flattered & I guess because he was a little older and kinda cute? Idk but I never had a guy just be so blunt like that. It kinda made me feel scared but also this strange little excitement in my tummy lol. What do you ppl think? Was this guy just a perv & a creep? Has anyone ever dealt w/ this? Well women get creeped out by anything and everything. It’s really sexy that you got a little turned on. I think he was inappropriate though. Seriously a pirate could come out of nowhere, burn down the town and throw a woman on his ship and sail off and she might be a little turned on be she’d also be scared out of her mind. What this guy did was some sort of equivalent. He turned you on through his crazy behavior but mostly scared you. If it had been me (and single) I would have come over and talked to you. Probably looked at you with my perverse eyes that would have conveyed the message I was undressing you in my mind. Then I would have asked you out instead of for sex. Although in my younger years I used to be bad and cat call from time to time. Seriously some girls would tell me I was rude for saying stuff like “lets ****” but they would seem into it so I would say “lets just go on a date then” and it got me a date.
Dust Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Why did you talk to the guy? Why did you make eye contact? He knew you liked him so he went for it. I bet he pulls this stunt several times a day. So don't be flattered. It was nothing special. It seems the guy had a foot fetish. Several times a day with women he thinks are hot! She considered the guy good looking so why not be flattered? Seriously should women go around being offended?
Teknoe Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Seriously should women go around being offended? Uh, hello? He just wants to do her, not get to know her. Women aren't toys.
Ross MwcFan Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Just came back from the mall after buying a few summer outfits on sale. I was outside waiting for the bus and this guy catcalls me right, so I did try to ignore him but he came over anyway and told me how cute and soft my feet looked. I thanked him and smiled but then he asked me my name and then told me upfront that he likes what he sees, yada yada. I was just so stunned I didn't say anything then he says he wants to take me to bed! I was like OMG what?!?! Anyway I just said I dont think so & thank god the bus came so I could get away lol. It felt so weird but at the same time I was sorta flattered & I guess because he was a little older and kinda cute? Idk but I never had a guy just be so blunt like that. It kinda made me feel scared but also this strange little excitement in my tummy lol. What do you ppl think? Was this guy just a perv & a creep? Has anyone ever dealt w/ this? Surely you know the answer to your question?
KathyM Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Ok, the guy who followed you pushed it too far. But if the other guys that approached you only ever got to see you on the bus and/or at the bus stop, then what other options would they have had? Answer me this question. If the only place a guy will ever see you is in the bus or at a bus stop, then what other option does he have according to you? He doesn't know your name, he doesn't know where you live, he doesn't have your number. I'd like to hear some opinions on this from girls/women. What exactly is the problem of approaching a girl/women at a bus stop, especially if the guy has no other options? It's either approach her there or not approach her at all? The thing to do if you see someone at the bus stop is to strike up a conversation and ask for their phone number and suggest going out sometime. Not telling some stranger at the bus stop that you want to have sex with them. That's not going to get you anywhere. And I have gone on a few dates with men that I met at a bus stop that asked for my number. But a person always has to keep safety in mind. Go to public places and get to know the person first before being alone with the guy. Lots of pervs and jerks out there.
Ross MwcFan Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 I'd feel so weird striking up a conversation with a stranger at a bus stop and then asking them for their number. I'd just feel as though I was doing something very odd. The only thing that let's me know that it is actual normal is that fact that I'm aware that's very common for guys to do it and a lot of them are actually successful.
Author Sweetheartt Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 Why did you talk to the guy? Why did you make eye contact? He knew you liked him so he went for it. I bet he pulls this stunt several times a day. So don't be flattered. It was nothing special. It seems the guy had a foot fetish. I guess so lol cause I WAS wearing sandals & I have small feet, size 5 but most guys just look me up & down & say nothing so w/ him coming out of nowhere was really interesting tho.
samspade Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 LOL I doubt it because it was at the mall & I never seen him before. I only got a little excited because of the way he looked at me but I still dont know him so I cant just take him up on the offer. Idk it still felt kinda like a little creepy tho. He looked at you that way because he wanted to F you and he wasn't shy about letting you know. Of course you wouldn't do it on the spot, but you're thinking about him and you admittedly got excited by the approach. I don't know how subtle his words were, perhaps they were a bit crude, but his mindset sounds spot on. Attention fellas: Five minutes of Alpha is worth a lifetime of Beta.
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