frisk Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 I'm just curious as to why girls do this to me: Whether in person, or through phone, girls say to me that we should do something on so and so day. But the thing is when I agree, girls end up not following through with THEIR OWN words, flaking like it's snowing dandruff. What's the girls' motive behind this?
Author frisk Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 Thinking about it, it seems like this usually happens to me when I quickly agree without furthermore input, then change the subject. Perhaps I should be more inviting in such situations, talking more about it to show I'm making an effort to actually make it happen? I don't know Wait, does it really matter though? They say they want to do something with me, I agree, then when the day comes they flake (because they don't bring it up and then I have to remind them that we are supposed to do so and so today)! What the hell.. Anyone see if there might be a problem with me, or is it the girls?
oaks Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 What's the girls' motive behind this? That's like saying "What's a cloud's motive in being wet and fluffy?"
grkBoy Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 They found a bigger better deal. In all honesty, the best way I know to LESSEN the chances is they commit to hard plans. Place set in stone, time set in stone. None of this "call me on Friday morning and I'll let you know what my weekend looks like." From there, you just have to be firm. So she makes hard plans with you, then cancels 30 min before said plans with some BS excuse. Move on. Don't waste your time.
wezol Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 They found a bigger better deal. In all honesty, the best way I know to LESSEN the chances is they commit to hard plans. Place set in stone, time set in stone. None of this "call me on Friday morning and I'll let you know what my weekend looks like." From there, you just have to be firm. So she makes hard plans with you, then cancels 30 min before said plans with some BS excuse. Move on. Don't waste your time. Agreed. Or, if you want to play games, when they call and cancel say "Ok cool that works out perfect cause something came up, now I don't feel so bad" or something to that tune.
dispatch3d Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 It's just girls freaking out and instaquitting in fear.
Author frisk Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 Thanks alot guys for the great advice. I just I don't find too many girls that I'm interested in, and when I do, I know I shouldn't handle their BS, and tell myself not to, but sometimes it's just like Damn... if you know what I mean :/
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