headsashed Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 before i start i just wanna say sorry if i bore u lol. right,ive been with this girl for almost 2 years,just over a week ago she broke up with me cos she kissed another guy and said she had feelings for him for a while. ofcourse it broke my heart and ive really struggled. anyway during this break up we have still txted and seen each other,we have still kissed and said we love each other,but she still says she is confused but its best to be on her own,yet we still kiss etc. yesterday was her birthday and she told me to fetch her card down and present that id bought her,so i did,we sat in the garden for a while and i told her i was gutted about not been able to do anything fo her bday which we had planned to go on holiday.so she said we can do something aslong as we dont talkabout whats happend,i said ok. so we went to the seaside for a day out,we held hands all day and still kissed,she came to mine after,ate dinner,then fell asleep on sofa,she went home,we kissed and said love each other again. this mornnig i spoke to her and she asked if i had got my hopes up which i replied ive had my hopes up since u broke up with me.she said its not good or bad news but i think we should have week no contact,i agreed to it,we spoke a lil more then she had to go,we kissed and said love each other again,but now im confused,im hurting so much and dont know what to do,shes gone to her friends for 2 days and will probs not think about me,i know im torturing myself and shouldnt even consider wanting her back,but i love the girl so much,anyone got any good advice for me as im really struggling. ive just done day 1 of no contact and god was it hard,plus i keep seeing her put a status on facebook which is hurting me too..thanx
TaraMaiden Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Right: One: Read the New Caliguy No Contact link in my signature. Two: stick to it 100%. Three: she's dangling you on a string, keeping you on a back-burner and treating you like an option. basically, she's not sure what she wants, but while she's undecided, you can hang around and pick up the breadcrumbs she's tossing you. She's keeping you handy and close, but that's no guarantee of a happy-ever-after ending. You're more of a disposable butt-wipe. Four: Please - please - don't write in text-speak. You have plenty of room, plenty of time, and there's no charge. So use proper English. There's no excuse. you know it makes sense. And when we can read it - so do we.
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