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Making friends in order to cope with a horrible breakup


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I've been making friends. Just a few. They are all into activities I absolutely love so we have that in common. They like being active and doing all that, as I do.

 

The good thing is I've been getting over my ex-girlfriend by noticing theres more to life than just one female.

 

The negative of this outcome is... I'm tired. I've been going to the beach, hiking, kayaking, paddle boarding, swimming, hanging out, cooking, making plans.. all these awesome activities, but now I feel overwhelmed.

 

I made plans with two separate friends tomorrow. One is to paddle board the other one is to paddle board as well. I know "why not just hang out all together?" (there would be too many in the car anyways if I ride with the other friend). I can't, I promises one friend to drive home (she lives far) and my other friend said they'll drive me. Its a conflict.

 

I'm thinking of bailing out on one but I feel horrible about this situation.

 

Any advice for a person that started to make friends but now can't handle it? :/

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Just cancel one politely and re-arrange the date.

You don't owe anyone anything.

This is 'You Time'.

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