SoOverIt Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Hello Everyone, I am new here and this is my first post. My on and off BF of over 6 years broke up with me the first week of June. Since then I have not contacted him and decided it's best to move on even though I was hurting. I've been reading threads and they have helped me so much. I've been feeling much better since the break and was really excited to move on from him for good. Well, I am so angry because he just sent me a really messed up email that left me thinking wtf does this mean!? I just don't even know....I mean it was so crazy why would he even send something like this to me. He even mentions his ex gf from over ten years ago in the first few sentences. I wanted to post it just to get some feedback on this. I mean I know I should move on but I am in shock. Here is his email: I really should not be writing you. And I'm not even saying that I want to get back together. Sandra and I even agreed that I owe you the chance to move on, to forget about me. But, you know me, I'm one selfish dude. The truth of the matter is, I miss you more than words can describe. I wish that I could hold you one last time. I wish I could hear that sound you make when you get annoyed, or that satisfied look on your face when you nail yet another recipe. Or just how you try another bull**** argument about how Peyton Manning is better than Tom Brady. I wish I could tell you how Ted manages to hit a new low every time he goes out (Oh, do I have stories!). I even miss having to pet Otis while you take your sweet time getting ready. I truly hope that you're doing well, and I am so very sorry about the way things turned out. You deserve so much better than me, and I wish I could snap my fingers and make things better between us. I hope that you can email me back telling me to piss off because you've found the man of your dreams. I'd be jealous as hell, but happy for you. For me, it's the life I would have wanted ten years ago. More dates than I have time for. I even appeared on an internet TV show with that guy with the pickup business. And for the most part, I like these girls. But it's just not the same as when I was with you. I should also mention that that text I sent about having enough of you was not meant to be a break-up. It's just that you took it as that, I missed sarging a little, and you really were getting on my last nerves at the time. So I just went with it. Like I said, I'm not trying to get back together with you here. I just felt the need to tell you how I feel. I'd like to know how you're doing, although your best bet is to never email me again and forget I existed. I'm poison to you, and you don't deserve that. You deserve a guy who is going to treat you the way that you deserve to be treated. But just know that I still care about you and I still love you, and if you ever need anything, I'll be here for you. Goodbye for now. there is it. what kind of games is he playing? At this point I am so glad we are over. I want to respond and just tell him off. thanks in advance to anyone reading and responding.
lonelynyc Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 That is a very bizarre email. What reasons (if any) did he give for breaking it off with you after 6 years together?
Author SoOverIt Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 Thanks for reading Well, we were just having a minor argument and I know I can be harsh at times so he responded to me via text that he"just about had enough of me." So I took it as a break up since he's broken up with me before and I did let some time go by before I responded to the text to see if he really meant it. When he didn't I took it as break up and said "wow you're breaking up with me over this little disagreement?" He went on to say that he's not exited to see me anymore and that the more he hangs with me (his words btw, i thought it was more than hanging out) the more he realizes he's not ready to settle down. I left it at that and just asked that he drop off my brand new prescription glasses and that I wanted nothing else from him. I left it at that and we haven't had contact in 6 weeks except for a Bday text he sent me and now this email. I just don't know what to think.
skydiveaddict Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 there's a simple solution to your problem. quit reading his emails, delete them. if he calls, don't answer, if he texts, don't read it etc.
livy07 Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Thanks for reading Well, we were just having a minor argument and I know I can be harsh at times so he responded to me via text that he"just about had enough of me." So I took it as a break up since he's broken up with me before and I did let some time go by before I responded to the text to see if he really meant it. When he didn't I took it as break up and said "wow you're breaking up with me over this little disagreement?" He went on to say that he's not exited to see me anymore and that the more he hangs with me (his words btw, i thought it was more than hanging out) the more he realizes he's not ready to settle down. I left it at that and just asked that he drop off my brand new prescription glasses and that I wanted nothing else from him. I left it at that and we haven't had contact in 6 weeks except for a Bday text he sent me and now this email. I just don't know what to think. I would absolutely 100% take his advice. Do not play into this crap. He's no good for you and even he admitted it. What a jerk! There is nothing to be gained from responding. Delete it and move on.
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