TaintedHeart Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Right ok, I've found out a couple of things tonight that have been very cutting! I found out that my ex is already on dating sites, it's only been 2 weeks! But then..I find out that my ex is actually seeing somebody! 3 years, gone, just like that! If you have read my other treads you will know that I've been NC for 9 days and that I boxed up all of my ex's things which was really hard, The plan was for my ex to come collect them in a few weeks. So I thought 'I'm not breaking NC' I will see if I get a text or call about it in a few weeks. Which I kind of knew wasn't going to happen. Now what? Do I let my ex know that I know about this new lover or what ever is it and ask them to come to get their stuff asap or do I just leave it? ARGH! I'm so angry! Why start dating so bloody soon?? Our relationship was obviously one big joke. I'm broken.
Kilty Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 (edited) Stick to no contact Do and say nothing Post her stuff or get someone to leave them by her place Ignore any contact from her Edited July 13, 2011 by Kilty Sorry - assumed your ex was a guy
stray Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Because your ex is a lazy f**k! That's why she's looking on dating sites! She doesn't want to do what it takes to have a real, quality relationship with ANYBODY. She just wants to replace you as soon as possible with someone who will abundantly feed her ego! And as soon as the new guy(s) stop treating her like a f**king princess, she'l leave them too! And this will go on for months or years, while in the meantime, you take the time and effort to find a compatible and worthwhile partner. This chick is garbage, I'm sorry. Trust me, I met my ex on a dating site (I'd NEVER date another person off a dating site after my experience with him) and he was back on the site within HOURS of us breaking up. The internet is just a mill for temporary and ridiculous relationships, do not be afraid she will find the love of her life on there, she won't! Her thinking is fundamentally flawed, love is impossible! Send her sh*t, don't go out of your way for her, ever again.
stray Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Yes! She thinks "attention" and "admiration" and "adoration" = LOVE. She'll gauge someone's worth by how good they make her feel...about herself! If that weren't the case, then she would have better things to do than jump on an online dating site after breaking up. I was dumped, and even I have better things to do than that! Because I don't need some rebound to tell me I'm pretty and worthy or whatever. As soon as her online flings start becoming two-way streets, she'll be onto the next.
bikinibeach Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Because your ex is a lazy f**k! That's why she's looking on dating sites! She doesn't want to do what it takes to have a real, quality relationship with ANYBODY. She just wants to replace you as soon as possible with someone who will abundantly feed her ego! And as soon as the new guy(s) stop treating her like a f**king princess, she'l leave them too! And this will go on for months or years, while in the meantime, you take the time and effort to find a compatible and worthwhile partner. This chick is garbage, I'm sorry. Trust me, I met my ex on a dating site (I'd NEVER date another person off a dating site after my experience with him) and he was back on the site within HOURS of us breaking up. The internet is just a mill for temporary and ridiculous relationships, do not be afraid she will find the love of her life on there, she won't! Her thinking is fundamentally flawed, love is impossible! Send her sh*t, don't go out of your way for her, ever again. love this.
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