seanmathews3 Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Everytime i meet a girl im attracted to, i feel like i screw it up because i either move to slow, and she loses interest, or i move to fast, going 0-60, and i push her away... Like a girl im talking to now, we talk but not as much as i'd like to, but then again we just met last weekend, and it seems like she shows interest when we do talk. But sometimes i'll send the one extra text or one extra message, which seems fine at the time, but later when i look back at it, i easily say to myself, "dam slow your roll" i obviously wanna get to know her more and wouldnt mind talking everyday, but i dont want her to think i cant go a day without talking. I just need help finding a happy medium... not to fast to where i push her away and not too slow to where i lose her interest. And not just for this girl, but for girls in general.. What do girls like in a guy as far as conversation, one that plays hard to get and waits for them to hit em up, or one that goes out of their way to talk to you. One that shows interests, flirts, and give compliments, or a guy thats very blunt.. Also, text or phone call? text is easy and convenient but phone calls are more personal but risky kuz im a person thats always busy and i never know if she's busy or not.. i assume a text to see if she has time for a call will seem fine.. i really like this girl and i dont want to screw it up. any advice is appreciated, thank you!
always the way Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 no one can really tell you what type of guys, girls like because most girls have different opinions on what interests them in a guy and what doesn't. I suggest not to be too blunt but dont be too interested at the same time its difficult to be in the middle but being a girl myself i know, us women have days where we want someone who is going to be in contact/there all day but other times we just want some time and the odd text or phonecall will do! you need to take notice of how she is being with you then go from there... not the best advice but i hope it helps :-)
Teknoe Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 sometimes i'll send the one extra text or one extra message, which seems fine at the time, but later when i look back at it, i easily say to myself, "dam slow your roll" haha you and me both, man... you and me both. I always tend to send ONE text or email too much. Something lengthy and personal, ruining any mystery I might have had up to that point. You gotta learn to hold back and leave them wanting more. I'm trying to find that happy balance myself. I think though, when we meet the right woman for us, she won't care if we send one text too many, one email too many... and it'll work because we are who we are, and it's nice to be loved just the way you are
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