delilah123 Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 I had a date with a guy from online last night, reallyyy good looking, cute, easy to talk to, funny etc. really liked him, so had 1 drink to many (wasn't drunk, it's only that in after thought I know I must've been tipsy because I wouldn't have done this otherwise). He said he'd walk me home and asked me about my couch (from the covo) AND I TOLD HIM HE COULD SEE IT IF HE WOULD LIKE. hmf. I didn't have sex with him but we fooled around (i did tell him he could come in for coffee, but ONLY coffee before hand, so he was well aware). He asked if he could stay the night because it was around 11PM at this point and I said that was fine (like we had been at mine already for an hour before he said this) he made it clear he meant sleep stay the night too not "stay the night ;)" He left this morning because we both have work, he asked me to see him again soon like this weekend so 2-3 days. but now I'm worried he see's this as only going towards sex... or do you think it makes no difference and if he liked me he liked me and would still want something more than sex anyway despite me inviting him in on our first date and letting him stay so out of character for me, i feel really skanky
Hot Chick Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 You didn't actually sleep with him so when he calls, just make it a date that doesn't involve going to any of your places, including "hanging out" etc. He can pick you up, drop you off, that's it. Don't go into a big explanation about why, just plan to make a date where you don't spend time together at each other's homes.
thatone Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 it makes no difference, but if you go pushing him away to try and prove a point he could very well lose interest or take it the wrong way and think you're not interested. so why don't you just be honest with him, tell him you don't make a habit of inviting people to your home on first dates and you're sorry if he got the wrong idea, but you're not pushing him away either. then when you're ready you have the perfect little hint, all you have to do is ask him if he wants to see your couch again .
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Andy_K Posted July 15, 2011 Posted July 15, 2011 This is really simple... if he respects you, and women in general, your actions will not affect whether he sees this as 'sex only' or not. He either always only wanted sex, always wanted more and still does, or is an ass. No decent guy will ever think a girl is a skank for letting him stay over.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 so out of character for me, i feel really skanky People feeling really skanky who aren't really skanky are sorta ruining "skanky" for the rest of us. When we see someone and are told or led to believe that they are "really skanky", we want to know that they were in fact "really skanky" at some point prior to the moment in question. Until such time as when you behave in "really skanky" fashion, please don't equate yourself with the really skanky. Down the line in life, IF you yourself don't do the "really skanky" deeds, then seeing yourself as having behaved in "really skanky" fashion just won't stick. So why don't you save "really skanky" for when you might opt to be "really skanky"? (for the sake of the rest of us, if not for yourself)
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