sohurtandconfused Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Here is my story. I met Veronica was i was 24 and she was 17, she was my roomates sister, and we hit it off. We found out she was prego, and dreaded teling her family. They had no idea we were dating. So.. we told them. Her parents lost it, and her brother ended our friend ship. Her family refused to talk to her for 3 years because of what had happened. They even called my ex gfs to see what kind of person i was, ex friends that im not friends with, they even called every place of employement that i had ever had to see why i didnt work there ne more. So.. for 4 years the silence went on, and now within the last year, they had warmed up to me, and we could all be in the same house and everything. Now.. we are 1 month shy of our 5th year seeing each other, had been engaged for 4 months, added another child to our family, and everything seemed to be going amazing. 2weeks ago, she asked if she could speak with me, i agreed, she told me that she couldnt marry me ne more, cuz she didnt love me ne more. Ive been lost and confused as to why, we had an amazing relationship for 5 years, she was my best friend, we did everything together, i didnt beat her, or the kids, i dont party, im not an alcoholic, im an amazing dad (her words) I own my own business... what have i done. She gave me an excuse that she didnt like that i left my socks rolled up, or that i left the cupboard doors open from time to time, or that my clothes were left behind the bathroom door. It also makes no sense that she doesnt love me when not more than 3 weeks ago i texted her " i love you" and she texted back with " omg!! i was just gonna text you the same thing!!" or when we drive somewhere she wants to hold my hands (not since the break up tho) I dont see how if someone doesnt love you they would be going out of her way to tell me she loves me. When i asked her about it.. she didnt have an answer..... So here i am, asking what happened has this happened to anyone before, is it possible to just fall out of love after 5 years? And not have ANY feelings at all for someone? Any info/advice would be appreciated. Thanks so much
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