English-Rose Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Ex and I split mid-feb this year after 5 months together. I ended it due to problems with the father of my children and ex wanting things to move too quickly. 2 weeks later we started seeing eachother again but it was now more of a friends with benefits scenario, though I wasn't aware that he had signed up for online dating and was communicating with another woman he met online. Long story cut short, I realised he had been out on dates stopped seeing him at all. This came to a head start of April. Since then he has been I'm touch with me by text, email, phonecalls, calling into my work regularly. Emails just about every week day. He has continued seeing a woman he met on the dating site in mid-march. He is even taking her abroad this month to a friends wedding! (I had been invited when we were together.) Anyway last week I decided enough is enough and sent him a no holds barred " leave me alone, stop trying to manipulate me" text message. Three months of constant contact, texts and emails sprinkled with x's and calling me honey. I just snapped, decided I can't take this anymore!! Since I initiated no contact I have felt steadily better. Every day gets easier. I was so scared to do it, worried about how I would cope without the scraps of attention he was sending me. But it's actually better not to bevthinking about when the next contact would be, very liberating! Wish Id done it months ago. I guess a little part of me hopes that the sudden no contact is bothering him and that he misses me. That's just my ego though and I guess it doesn't really matter anyway. I am getting my life back now and feel happier in my soul. I recommend no contact to anyone else male or female going through a break up with a persistent and manipulative ex partner.
wilsonx Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 I recommend no contact to anyone else male or female going through a break up . I fixed this for you, its now true But good job for taking control of your life back =)
Author English-Rose Posted July 13, 2011 Author Posted July 13, 2011 Lol yes true it would literally work for anyone
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