Midzed Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Hey guys, I'm 23 y.o and I was seeing a 25 y.o girl. The chase was hard but I finally had her for a while but it didn't work out. She's a girl that hangs out with the group and she close to her male friends but doesn't sleep around. I'm friends with her but nothing more and we often see each other, it's been 1 yr now and I can't get over her. She is close with all the boys in the group but there a friend of ours that I'm threaten of because he has potential to date her. I trust that she won't date a friend and hurt me, but knowing that I can't have her I often get jealous. When she is nice to our friend who I'm threaten by I get really jealous and I start thinking in my head 'Does she really him?' We are really close but she only see me as friend, but I can't help but think I have a chance but I know I'm deceiving myself. I want to move on but my feelings for her is strong and I don't want to miss the chance to produce something special because she is potentially the girl I may one day marry. We had it going so well and at the click of the fingers we only just friend. I hear all these advice but the end of the day I still drown my thoughts with her. Need advice on what to do when I don't see her I really miss her but hurts because I can't touch her like I use to and having to watch what I say/do to her. Advice will be appreciated
iJester Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Stop being friends with her. Stop all contact. If she initiates contact, tell her that you'd like her to leave you alone for a while.
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