simmental Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Need advice...... I have been living with a great gal but, lately I feel like she is taking advantage of me. We have gotten along great until she started going to school, then she worked part time at best, sometimes needing my help to pay bills, I helped and then she stopped working so I was paying all her bills. She finished school then started working but still needed a little help. I helped. Then she decided to work for herself, then she needed more and more help to pay bills, I finally had enough and told her to find a job. She has been looking for 2 weeks but most days she stays home not going any where always saying she is looking on Craigslist, newspaper, temp services. Now I am back to paying her bills, I see a pattern I think I need to tell her its over, I can't keep paying her bills and let her mooch from me for ever. She had no job, no money, no where to go. I do love her but I have been in this position before and it leaf to divorce. I feel used, taken advantage of, I am noticing that I am easily anoid, wanting to distance myself, and depressed most of the time. Ladies any advice......any one have advice......ad I write this I almost feel I know what to do but just really want to make sure..............
PegNosePete Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Trust your gut. If you feel she is disrespecting the relationship by not pulling her weight then end it. If you feel she is doing all she can to make ti work then talk to her about her finances and sort out a plan.
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