catface Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 im 28 from uk, i have a 8 yr old son ive always been a single mum.8 months ago i met a 40 yr old man and we started dating. after 4 months he moved in with us. we all got on great. we was in love or so i thought. we went places as a family, my ex went home every second weekend to see his own son. the boys met too.all my family thought he was handsome caring kind intelligent, and a nice man.we started rowing about little things like, if he was late id have a whinge and he has strangled me in a row kicked me pushed me against a wall.called me names. he is 6ft4 18st im 5ft7 9 st, i loved him and he only ever lost his temper if i was annoying him so much!!!the end come when we was geting stuff ready to move out to another city, we had a row via text when he got home i said go away he kicked door down then called my son names like fat prick i hate you,i smashed his car window,.he also said bad things to my mother , she amaged his car later on to get revenge, he saw the damage and let home.:(this was 4 weeks ago we still text we always end up rowing though, but he says he loves me then the next if i wont send him sexy pics he says never contact me again i lovd you so much your so cruel..just stressed and would like to hear from yous and what best way to go ahead with this? I do love him and think he did love me. oh he also phoned police on me last week for harrasment even though its him that calls me and texts,first anyway the police arent bothered. but now hes threating again and blaming me, but then in a few days time he will be nice to me...whats going on ? xxx
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 ok do yourself, your son, and your family a favor and seriously... Get rid of this guy. He is not healthy and you shouldn't have any association with him. I think you may have felt "love" because he was there to comfort you in the beginning but that does not excuse him of the things he is doing/did. you need to go No Contact with this guy especially for your son's sake. he abused you, what if your son or mother is next? don't take this chance.
thelovingkind Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 He's an abusive person who is not fit to be around you or your child. Get him out of your life, whatever it takes. Use your friends and family to help and don't hesitate to contact a Woman's Refuge centre. They don't just provide beds for the night - they will have all the information and support you need from how to deal with threats, work with the Police, lawyers, cope with the emotional abuse and basically get your life together.
Author catface Posted July 13, 2011 Author Posted July 13, 2011 Thank you I am not going to answer his calls or texts . x
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