MandyC18 Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 (edited) As nervous as i am, im meeting up with my ex's sister tomorrow so she can deliver a letter i wrote him..and place it on his bed to see. He is away at cross country camp and wont see it or read it till the 16th Saturday. Im so nervous but this letter for him is nessecary, we have been nc for almost 2weeks. Im still upset over the break up yes i know..but i need to do this for myself. Its nothing mushy, mean, or anything of that extent. Its simply me reintroducing myself and showing some growth within myself since the break up. I have no idea what the outcome will be...many things could happen or not. But i wont know until those days roll around. I would love to be able to meet up with him and talk, of course im not going to break down but remain in tact with my emotions and etc. I dont just give up on people which can bite me in the butt at times but we are all here on this site for a reason. Im going to do what i need to do. --->If you don't like Cinderella because she seems so "naive" and "weak," listen to this quote from the Walt himself: "She believed in dreams, all right, but she also believed in doing something about them. When Prince Charming didn't come along, she went over to the palace and got him."After all...its not what we are "weak" we just fell in love. Edited July 13, 2011 by MandyC18
Crisis Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Mandy, It is an easier way to get in contact with him. Some say you shouldn't break NC, but sometimes, a letter is the best way. You can't expect him to respond though if he broke off the relationship. I don't mean to rain on your parade, but you have to expect no response, otherwise you be holding onto hope that may not be there. I wrote my ex a letter also, so I know how you feel. We have been NC for 3 weeks and broken up 5 weeks. She has someone else I believe and wants nothing to do with me. My letter on the other hand is telling her that I am going to permanently take myself out of her life, and if she seeks to mend ir then to mend it. If not, then I'm fine without her. We were together 5 years, so I have history on my side, but like I said to you, expect no response. There are so many people on here that make it seem like there is no hope, but they are being real. They have been through it and seen a lot of pain. No one knows how you feel, and I know it seems like there is a lot of negativity. You ask where is the hope? So do I. I HOPE that you get a response and it is positive. I would also say, prepare yourself for none. Again, I HOPE you get one, cause this is what you want and for it to work out. I won't bash on you hopes, and I will pray that it works out for you.
Author MandyC18 Posted July 13, 2011 Author Posted July 13, 2011 oh i know there is a chance of no response and ill take that as my sign. i feel like a letter is more personal...mine has some comedy in it so its not as intense and etc. I dont want to text him, call him, facebook chat or anything else. i want him to see that i wrote this letter because i care..i took the time to write it, decorate it, seal it, and everything. Who knows what will happen!
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Crisis Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Alright, well it might mean something. Some of my friends tonight told me that out of respect she will accept and read the letter through. I don't know if it's true but I hope so for the both of us. I agree, a letter is more personal and if you wrote it then props to you. I typed mine ( I have chicken scratch handwriting). I understand where your coming from though, it's that whole, hey I'm being lazy so listen up stuff. I feel ya. Besides, a text, message, facebook or email is easy to delete. A letter on the other hand, is something they can read on there own personal time and I don't want to say it's easily erased but it means a whole lot more than other forms of communication, and not only that, they see and end to a letter. Other communication doesn't have an end really so they know, oh this is it? Alright then. So again, I HOPE it goes well. Keep us updated.
Sugarkane Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 I wouldn't expect a reply. Majority of the time they never answer at all.
Forever Learning Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 yes, do keep us updated, I shall be interested to see if he responds and how he responds. How old are you and he, by the way? I do like the thought of a hand written letter, it is much more personal. Good for you in getting things off your chest and with humor even. Remember you are a great catch and very special, and sooner or later with patience and a good attitude, you will find someone who sees that and someone you feel the same way about too. good luck!
Author MandyC18 Posted July 13, 2011 Author Posted July 13, 2011 thank youu! we are young im 18 he's 17..but any who i think he will appreciate it, once i give it to his sister its out of my hands and up to "fate". Of course ive already thought of things i want to say if we end up meeting up and things i want to say if we meet up without a happy ending. If all goes well..maybe the decision ive come up with or solution for it to work seems mature and believable to me. Im going to talk to his sister a little and get some of her incite since she knows him best! Time is ticking.
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