leoc1973 Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 Anyone ever wonder if your ex is doing the whole NC thing just like you are and you are both waiting for the other to call. I know my ex is probably the most stubborn girl in the world so she wouldn't call if she was dying on the side of the road and the only one she could call to save her was me. LOL any thoughts?
Chuck Bartowski Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 Anyone ever wonder if your ex is doing the whole NC thing just like you are and you are both waiting for the other to call. I know my ex is probably the most stubborn girl in the world so she wouldn't call if she was dying on the side of the road and the only one she could call to save her was me. LOL any thoughts? I have to admit I have been wondering about that myself. But my ex may just be afraid to call me.
Istherehope1 Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 my wife can go months without a kind word. She ignored me for months even when we had a court order to communicate to each other on things related to our children, health, school, religion, housing. No matter how many times I contacted she would ignore, even if I told her "we have a court order that says we must comunicate", she would still ignore. Woman have a sixth sense and it's called ignore ignore ignore:mad:
Lemontang Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 It's been said many times here before but NC isn't about who can hold out the longest before one of you make contact. It's simply for moving on. NC is about having the chance to reflect on yourself, not the other person. If it's anyone's job to break NC it's the dumpers and even then you should ignore it until they are on your doorstep asking for you back. Everything else is just to alleviate their own guilt. Once it's over...it's over! And any 2nd chance is just a new relationship starting over again (well at least that's how it should be entered into, but few do, hence why 2nd chances often fall over).
0hpenelope Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Anyone ever wonder if your ex is doing the whole NC thing just like you are and you are both waiting for the other to call. I know my ex is probably the most stubborn girl in the world so she wouldn't call if she was dying on the side of the road and the only one she could call to save her was me. LOL any thoughts? It's a good thing, then. You know your place with her and as long as she's not calling, regardless of her nervousness, then you know she's got no business with you. If she wants to call she will, but hasn't - and no one knows if she'll ever get in touch with you again. Since she's doing NC on you, it means she doesn't want to talk to you. She's the only one who knows why she doesn't want to communicate at the moment, so just go by that and keep moving forward. Yeah she can change her mind, but do yourself a favor and don't hold on to that possibility.
TheHurtProcess Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 It's been said many times here before but NC isn't about who can hold out the longest before one of you make contact. It's simply for moving on. NC is about having the chance to reflect on yourself, not the other person. If it's anyone's job to break NC it's the dumpers and even then you should ignore it until they are on your doorstep asking for you back. Everything else is just to alleviate their own guilt. Once it's over...it's over! And any 2nd chance is just a new relationship starting over again (well at least that's how it should be entered into, but few do, hence why 2nd chances often fall over). I sometimes wonder myself, but I do agree with this. It's her job to contact me since she was the one who broke it off and ran. I'm not going to accept anything less than her on my doorstep, on her knees, pleading, crying, begging for me to come back. Anything other than that just simply isn't enough. I don't care if she sends me a text or calls me and says she wants me back, I'll straight up tell her the same thing. And if she can't swallow her pride to do just that, then she's not good enough for me and not worth my time.
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