valente26 Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 it was 6 weeks no contact before friday that she wanted. she saw me kiss a girl on firday night since then she has phoned me twice both i ignored and last night she came into where i work with a guy that she has apparently been seeing and told 1 of my colleagues not to tell me she was in there. this is obviously just to try and hurt me isnt it which it did but im not going to let her see that. i still love her but it is dwindling and no contact has definetly helped me i had a bit of a cry before writing this though. should i message her telling her to leave me alone or would keeping no contact have more of a affect on her and for me??
robthefool Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 NO CONTACT!!! Do not react at all! She is just trying to get a reaction from you, staying silent will do the exact opposite of what she wants, and as they say, silence speaks a thousand words stay strong and keep no contact
wilsonx Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 i agree with rob, you win if you keep NC... the fact is she tried showing the new guy off which means you got under her skin. the second you respond, she gets the ego boost she needs
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