April72 Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 A guy friend of mine was telling me how it's easy for him to hook up with girls he's not into and use them for sex... but when he meets a girl he really likes he freezes up and can't seem to pursue a relationship. So he goes back to the easy hookups. So are there guys that can just have sex.... but can't pursue a relationship with someone they actually like that would ineviabtably give them sex ? It sounds confusing for me because if I'm not attracted to someone and I am not hoping for something to become of the connection I don't want to have sex with them... I mean why would I ? Just curious.
Untouchable_Fire Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 Yes, and there are guys who are just the opposite as well. It's because what men find attractive is sometimes different from what they want in a relationship.
mo mo Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 I can actually do both kinds of relationships. I can do the flings where it's all about the sex, and I can do the committed thing. I handle both situations completely differently. If a fling goes on vacation for a month, I say: OK hit me up sometime after you get back If a girl I really care for goes on vacation for a month, I say: OK, let me know when you arrive and keep in touch. I hope you have a wonderful time and take lots of pictures! I miss you already!!! squish squish
robdrm32 Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 Yes, and there are guys who are just the opposite as well. It's because what men find attractive is sometimes different from what they want in a relationship. I agree, when i see a woman dressed slutty i will probably stare, but would never consider her for a relationship.
mo mo Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 A guy friend of mine was telling me how it's easy for him to hook up with girls he's not into and use them for sex... but when he meets a girl he really likes he freezes up and can't seem to pursue a relationship. So he goes back to the easy hookups. So are there guys that can just have sex.... but can't pursue a relationship with someone they actually like that would ineviabtably give them sex ? It sounds confusing for me because if I'm not attracted to someone and I am not hoping for something to become of the connection I don't want to have sex with them... I mean why would I ? Just curious. By the way, I know for a fact that this kind of thing is more common with women (especially the younger ones) than men. They'll go after lesser guys they'd like to bang but don't think they'll ever get attached to. They'll shut down eligible guys cuz "they're not ready for a relationship sob sob (cue tiny violin)" Then... surprise surprise here comes attachment to the lesser guys.
mo mo Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 By the way (and forgive me for going on a slight tangent here) but I don't have a whole lot of respect for guys that go for easy hookups or go out of their way to "get their numbers up". Who cares about your numbers? The men you brag to? So you're in a penis measuring contest with them? Why do you even care about their penises? Why are you even looking at their penises? It's actually really gay if you think about it. These guys are more interested in impressing other men than trying to relate to women. Pathetic.
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