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Why am I a mess when he lets me down?


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We were together a few weeks short of a year and he was 19, I seventeen. As soon as I turned 18, we moved in together. I was going to school, he was working. Everything was fine before Black Ops came out. Then he never paid any attention to me, and we moved in with his best friend and it got worse.

 

We started fighting all the time, and he was even ignoring mt sexual advances to play the X-box. When I would cry, I was crying to much, when I said something to him about anything, I was just trying to argue. He was also spending suspicious amounts of time with women he worked with, and lying to me about it. So I moved back home with my parents, and we broke up.

 

We didn't talk for a few months, and I sent him a text for the first time the other day, and he keeps letting me down. And I still love him so it's simple little things like saying he's going to call me and he doesn't that are seriously getting to me. When I say something to him about it, he calls me names and gets mad. I get that I am temperamental, given the situation, but I don't know why I get SO upset.

 

What am I supposed to do? I still love him, and he's acting like an ass hole. He says he loves me, and wants to be with me, but he's calling me names. I assume that he only does that in front of his hero/ best friend/ room mate, because other times, he wants to fix things. What the hell does he want from me? What do I do?

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