Rando Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 So long story short:we're in college and started sleeping together toward the end of the senester. We live far apart (mid-west and new York cit) we spoke on the phone every night before bed and expressed mutual feelings. She visited me in the city before she started her summer job... Things continue and I visit her at her job (full time camp counselor) an on the visit I ask her to be my girlfriend, she says shed love to be. Ok cool. She accidentally left her phone charger in my car so she had no phone for about a week, at which point she started working 14hour shifts and "nightwatch" with no phone allowed during the day. She then call on her day off and says that she thought we could do it but in all reality it woulbt work because she has no time to talk to her new boyfriend. She said we should take our summers and see what happens in the fall.... Now all I can think about is that maybe some guy working with (at the camp) is courting her. We have broken all contact (I'm trying to give her the space she needs) but I also want to be in her mind. I really fell for her but I don't know if I came on too strong or if y'all think she has a valid point. Basically: what are you're thoughts? -one love, Rando
Hot Chick Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 She has given you no choice. You should definitely try to have fun over the summer and get her off her mind, and try dating other women if anyone interesting comes your way. She has said flatout that she doesn't want to continue the relationship over the summer. She possibly has met some other guy, but you really have no way of knowing. In any case, you aren't in a relationship with her at the moment, so you both are free to explore other people. Possibly things might happen after you reuinte in the fall after the summer. To be fair, things just heated up right at the end of the semester and she might just not want to be tied down over the summer over something so new between the two of you. It seems you really like her, but please don't torture yourself thinking of her with another guy and try to have fun and take it easy over the summer until you can sort things out between the two of you when you return to school.
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