SJC2008 Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 Met nice woman at my job, made small talk with her. I was really attracted to her, she's from Sicily and has a lovely accent. I asked her what she did and she gave me her card. Later, when I rang her out she asked for the card back and I gave it to her and she drew a line accross the contact #'s and email and hand wrote another number and gave it back to me.So I go to call her and realize the 6th didgit looks funky. 99% sure it's a 9, but there is another 9 in the number and doesnt really look like it. Anyway, I call and no answer BUT it says the voice mailbox is not set up and hangs up. So if I emailed her or called one of the #'s on the card she drew the line through would that be a no no? If you know my history I overanalyize so I think she wrote that one didgit funky so I could not make it out lol! In all serousness she's to old for me, late 30's to early 40's and I'm 29, but I figured mabye she just wants to have some fun but that's besides the point. Suggestions and opinions appreciated!
SpinScratch Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 well obviously she doesn't want you to call the number that she crossed out. and it's possible she gave you a dead phone number to throw you off. you said that when you met her you asked what she did and she gave you her card. maybe she didn't realize that you wanted her to call her on a personal level. next time you see her just tell her you called and the line wasn't working and see what she says.
Author SJC2008 Posted July 13, 2011 Author Posted July 13, 2011 Told yall I overanalyze. I texted her today saying I wan't able to leave a message and when was a good time to talk. She called me a little while ago. Were meeting up for a couple of drinks tomorrow. I try to not think so negative/insecure when it comes to women but it's hard not to after not having much luck with them. Wish me luck!
Author SJC2008 Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 UPDATE: We met a local pub for some drinks. Had a pretty good time! conversation flowed the whole time. I complimented her a couple of times, she was very receptive. Never really got into the whole "what I'm looking for" which is probably too heavy for 1st date anyway. Anyway, I am really attracted to her and like her accent and she is nice and I can tell she likes me by the way she looks at me. I do want to date her and get to know her better but I don't know how to approach because she is 40 and has a 6 yr old and I don't know what she is looking for and have never dated a woman with a kid or many woman for that matter. Should I assume that bc she has a kid she is looking for a father (which I'm not ready for) or just go with it and se what happens?
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