seanmathews3 Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 So last weekend i met this girl at a friends, she is very very interesting and i was immediately interested in her, its not one of those "just looks" thing, she has a great personality and views. we exchanged numbers and she showed interest back with lil kiss on the cheek when i left. We've talked a bit since then, but not too much. She lives quite a ways away from me, but i dont mind at all. Im just wondering how i should approach this? i wanna ask her to hang out soon, but i dont know if its too early, i wanna talk to her more and be more flirty but i dont wana annoy her and push her away. i can keep it casual, but i dont want her to lose interest, i wouldnt mind texting a lil everyday kuz i obviously wanna get to know her a lot more, but i dont want her to think i cant go a day without talking to her.. any advice?
thatone Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 she's interested in you, not you and a bunch of tag alongs, get over the "hang out" proposal. ask her out, not her and all of her friends or all of your friends. don't say "hang out". you are asking her to go out with you, not "hang out". it's not too early. if you wait it'll be too late.
KathyM Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 So last weekend i met this girl at a friends, she is very very interesting and i was immediately interested in her, its not one of those "just looks" thing, she has a great personality and views. we exchanged numbers and she showed interest back with lil kiss on the cheek when i left. We've talked a bit since then, but not too much. She lives quite a ways away from me, but i dont mind at all. Im just wondering how i should approach this? i wanna ask her to hang out soon, but i dont know if its too early, i wanna talk to her more and be more flirty but i dont wana annoy her and push her away. i can keep it casual, but i dont want her to lose interest, i wouldnt mind texting a lil everyday kuz i obviously wanna get to know her a lot more, but i dont want her to think i cant go a day without talking to her.. any advice? Call her and make definate plans for next Friday night. That would be not coming on too strong or too timid. I'm a firm believer in actually talking to people on the phone, rather than texting. After arranging the date tonight for Friday, maybe call her Thursday to chat a little and let her know you're looking forward to your date on Friday night. Not too pushy, not too aloof. That's the plan that works.
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