DiorAddict Posted April 23, 2004 Posted April 23, 2004 Why is it that I broke up with my ex and he didn't want to. Eventually we agreed on taking time apart. I told him that he'd have to call me, but it's been two months and he hasn't picked up the phone. What gives??!!!
reservoirdog1 Posted April 23, 2004 Posted April 23, 2004 WHAM!!! Sound of Kev hitting the nail on the head again. Want to furnish a few more details, Dior?
Author DiorAddict Posted April 24, 2004 Author Posted April 24, 2004 We are supposed to be just taking time apart, but he has not contacted me and I don't know what to do. I called him and e-mailed him over two months ago, but he never responded. I guess he just threw our 4 1/2 year relationship out the window. I really didn't want to break up, but he was not being honest about critical things, so we decided to "take time off". It's odd because he was crying and said he didn't want to loose me, then he falls off the planet. I really just want to know if I should even bother worrying about him. I mean, if he has a new girlfriend I think I have the right to know so I don't think that it's really "time off"...Ugh! I'm sooooo confused. But I've been trying to just treat it as a break up...I need advice!! HELP!!!
Author DiorAddict Posted April 24, 2004 Author Posted April 24, 2004 Sounds like your right, Kevin. It's just hard to absorb...Wow, I guess I better start getting myself out there and enjoy the single life!
UCFKevin Posted April 24, 2004 Posted April 24, 2004 Don't force it. It'll happen naturally. I didn't force it when I became single, I just sulked and cried and watched movies and stopped eating but eventually I began to go out, have fun, hang out with friends, and now I appreciate the HELL out of my singledom. It takes a while to begin thinking, "Damn, it's great being single" but it will happen.
Author DiorAddict Posted April 25, 2004 Author Posted April 25, 2004 Good encouragement =) My mom took my Nordic Track machine away from me cause she said I was abusing it. She thinks that when a person breaks up with someone or gets divorced they take on a bad habit, and she claims I'm an exerciseaholic now, but I'm not. I just work out more because I'm so frustrated and saddened.
UCFKevin Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 Your mom made a mistake. Exercising releases endorphines, (I think) and therefore will make you feel a little better afterwards. Get it back. Or go on walks/jogs.
tom_gbr Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 i think kevs right.....i bought a bigger set of weights a week a go and im lifting them everyday...i feel better after a work out and im looking better than ever as well. also if u ever bump into your ex in the street it could show that you have come out the relationship a better person. i wish i could bump into my ex girlfriend now but she lives two hours away! lol...cant see that happening
UCFKevin Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 YES!!! My ex saw a picture of me on my website recently, which was a semi-new picture, months after we broke up and said, "You look bigger," and I said, "What, fatter?" and she goes, "No! I mean your arms, they're much more muscular now." And I was like, "Awwwwwwwwwww yeah."
tom_gbr Posted April 25, 2004 Posted April 25, 2004 i think im gonna set up a website and put some new pics of me on it with my top off...lol the difference in the last couple of months really shows
Author DiorAddict Posted April 25, 2004 Author Posted April 25, 2004 You guys are really getting me pumped up!!! I can't wait to go down the shore and show off. I'm planning on going to an MTV beach party, and if my ex sees me dancing and looking hotter than ever, he'll feel like an ass, lol. Hopefully by then I'll have a new boy toy on my arm....or not! My friend's mom is psychic and she told me he's dating a girl just to do something, and that she's chubby and plain looking and to top it off, she's not even a high school grad! I guess he decided to lower his standards and go low maintenance. NOT I!! Why am I so mean? See what happens when your heart gets broken and stomped on? It's not cool.....
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