Chitowngirl Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 Curious, if you're a guy, who has only dated blue or green eyed blondes his entire life, would you date a brown eyed brunette? If you did like the brunette enough to date her, would you always pine for a blue eyed blond? Would you want your brunette to wear colored contacts or dye her hair blond eventually?
rafallus Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 (edited) Unless brunette is generally repulsive, then no. To throw away a perfectly attractive brunette, just because she's not blonde with green/blue eyes, is idiocy on the scale of Grand Canyon. Same for any other fixing on one type of beauty. That's unless someone positively can't be aroused by brunettes, but such occurence is about as likely as flying pigs. Edited July 11, 2011 by rafallus
Nexus One Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 (edited) Curious, if you're a guy, who has only dated blue or green eyed blondes his entire life, would you date a brown eyed brunette? If you did like the brunette enough to date her, would you always pine for a blue eyed blond? Would you want your brunette to wear colored contacts or dye her hair blond eventually? I'd date any type of girl as long as she rings my bells. Both in terms of looks and personality and preferably intelligence. I do have my types of course, but as long as she rings my bells, then I'm all for it. (that doesn't imply I have low standards, that's not what I'm saying) I wouldn't want a girl to change her eye color on my behalf, I would not ask/tell her to get a breast resize either. But I'm not every guy. I know of an @sshole that told his girlfriend that he'd leave her if she ever got herself a breast reduction, as she had her breast size increased with implants several years ago, but it turned out they were too big. The worst thing about it is that her breasts are causing her physical pain, so much so that she cannot sleep anymore due to the pain. And her boyfriend knows this yet came with his ultimatum anyway and it made her cry, but that didn't change his mind. I think he's a jerk and I don't think he and I will ever be friends. On one side I would want to say to her that it's partly her fault too for staying with a man like that, but that would be too easy, because she's so in love with him. What the guy has going for him is that women think he's hot and he does well for himself financially, but personality-wise, ugh. I know of another woman who got breast implants to win her ex boyfriend back, with which she succeeded. Such a superficial guy, from what I know when they met for the first time after their break up, he saw her new breasts and without saying anything just went straight for them with his mouth. And like that, they were back together. I mean really? There are women who fall for guys like that? It blows my mind, it really does. A female colleague of my mother recently died during a breast implant operation and that was a standard procedure, so they're not without risk. There's also a riskier procedure available now, where the risk of death during the operation is actually quite high. In that procedure they insert the implants into the breast through the belly button. It leaves no scars, but there's a relatively high chance that the patient will die during the operation. I really think women should set their boundaries regarding this. There's a line a guy just should not cross. Women shouldn't only view things like this from an emotional standpoint, but also a rational standpoint. Because think about it, a guy that is willing to have you suffer pain and sleepless nights for the rest of your life for his pleasure DOES NOT love YOU. Staying with a guy like that is wasting your time and your time here on earth is limited. But these are decisions that women themselves need to make. Chitowngirl, out of curiosity, why did you ask this question? Edited July 11, 2011 by Nexus One
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