HLP234 Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 Background is coming from this post here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t285373/ So my parents pretty much do not like my gf at all. They think she is messed up and controlling, selfish and disrespectful. In their culture you earn respect and they believe she has done nothing to earn respect from them, they say. I was trying so hard going through ultimatums my family put me, from ultimatums she put on me as well. When I thought I would make a decisions and just go with her, things seemed to get better. It turned out my father called to scream at me about some stuff about my mother and how she wants money from him because they are divorcing and how I'm leaving her in my apartment alone while I'm at my gf's. He ended up saying he just wants money I owe him that he used to put me through school and said if I don't get it to him soon he would come here and do something I never seen of, something bad I suppose. My gf heard this whole conversation, she saw I was really upset afterwards and depressed. She did something I never expected, she wrote my dad an email saying if he threatens me again, that it is a terroristic threat and she will call the police on him. She did not tell me she did this until after she sent the mail. I was pissed, why would she do this??? Now it only made things worse for me. What is your guys' opinions. I've always been fighting with my parents about my gf and now what do I say? They don't understand she was protecting me like she thought. They see it as a huge disrespect when I was trying to basically work things out. I think it was not needed. We ended up saying we will split up and that she said she still loved me. But I don't think I can even continue with her after this. Was this right or wrong?
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