gamechanger Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 i need to draw on the people with past experiences here, i need to know of some signs that the ex has moved on. i feel like i cant get past this point until i have some closure and i dont want to break the NC. i was going good then had a really bad day, at this point i feel like i need to know what we had is done so i have nothing left to hold onto... anything would help...
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 the dumper moves on when they terminate the relationship. don't hold onto that hope that they still care about you and will want to come back after x amount of time.
fauxleather Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 I agree. Most dumpers would have already disbonded themselves from the relationship before being able to actually really terminate the relationship. It's definitely safer and better for you to assume that they have moved on so as to facilitate your own healing process.
oldguy Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 Without knowing particulars a response can only be vague. Any time one side stops wanting to work on the relationship. When someone moves out it is almost always a good indicator that the relationship has reached a serious impasse & statistically will not recover. I'm sorry for what you are going through.
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