just_a_guy__99 Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 Hey, first off thanks for looking at my thread. So here's the story. I had worked with my ex about 2 weeks when i first asked her out. Things went great and I moved in with my ex after only 2 1/2 months of dating. I was 28 at the time and had never lived with a woman before. She was 24 at the time, we are 30 and 26 now. We were together for almost a year and half and we broke up for about a month. She moved in with a friend for that month, but we were still talking a couple times a week and even hanging out at least once a week. We ended up getting back together and she moved back in. Just about a month or so after that we broke up again. This time she moved in with her stepdad. This time when we broke up we actually had to live with each other for about 3 weeks because she had nowhere to go and I wasn't going to throw her into the street, even though according to her I was a selfish *********. After living together while we were broken up and working together, things got a bit stressful. She finally moved out but couldn't take her dog right away. And by right away I mean I took care of that dog for over 2 months. She would come by to walk her dog and play with her a couple times a week and would get all pissed if I said I wouldn't be home so she couldn't walk the dog. But when she would come over we would chat, uncomfortably, and things were fine. We got into a big fight over $15 worth of dog food and hadn't really talked since. When we got into this fight it all started because I asked her to watch her dog for the weekend while I was out of town so my dog wasn't locked inside all weekend since the dogs couldn't be left alone together. I dropped my key off to her at work to pick up her dog and that was the last time we talked for a while. During this time I was out of work on disability for 2 months. The injury happened about 2 weeks before the big fight I just mentioned. We didn't talk or see each other for the next 5 weeks. I was feeling lonely and sent her an email seeing if she wanted to go to dinner or something because I missed her. She declined and said there is no way we could get back together. Now I have been back to work for almost a month. The first week or more she didn't say a word to me and I didn't even look at her. It was uncomfortable but it's what I expected. Out of nowhere one day she asks me how I am doing as I walked by. I told her great and asked how she was and she said good. Then for the rest of the night there was nothing more than excuse me or can you help with this. We work in restaurant so its impossible to not see each other. Starting about 2 weeks ago she is actually coming up to me to talk. She was talking to me about her dog, she poked me in the back as she walked by the other day, just weird stuff. Two days ago she came up to me and was talking about our first date and how much fun it was. Then came up and asked me what a word meant, one i remember we had looked up together, and when I couldn't remember she went home and told me what it meant the next day. She is seeking me out to talk to me. I am so confused as to what's going on here. I spent so much time trying to get over her, and as much as I still love her, I was prepared for it to be over. The first week back to work was just like expected, she was a ***** to me and I just ignored her. But now I don't know. I've asked some girls at work and some say she's just playing games others say it's because she still has feelings for me. If she still has feelings for me I would love to get back together but if she's just playing games I would rather her just not even talk to me. I know we have to work together and need to be civil, but we don't need to talk about other stuff if she's not trying to rekindle what we had. What do you guys think is going on here? Is she just playing games or is she trying work things out with me? Or is she just bored at work? Thanks for your help, this has been killing me.
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