lance.dark Posted July 10, 2011 Posted July 10, 2011 (edited) Last night I politely told the girl I've been seeing that I don't want to see her anymore. I like her and everything is fantastic when we're together. However, I was kind of getting a vibe that her interest was low. Towards the end of our last date she found out that one of her friends was in town so we ended the date then, which was fine(friends are important and I'm ok). She asked me to text her the following day when I got to a bar. I did and two hours later she tells me she was too hungover from the previous night with her friends to come out. This also would have been fine had the previous night not been interrupted. But it seems to me that if she really was interested she would have a) sucked it up and come out since she knows I wouldn't have forced her to drink since I don't or b) she wouldn't have had so much the night before to prevent her from being able to meet up with me. The only time I can see her is the weekend so I figure an interested person would like to make the most of that. We don't text much - I don't like doing it with someone I'm not very familiar with and she hasn't initiated many conversations (far fewer than most girls who I've gone out with 3 or 4 times). She also didn't realize I'd left a message on her voicemail asking her out. So, what is the verdict? Is she purposely blowing me off? If so why, on our last date, would she specifically ask to get desert and pay for it (I paid for dinner) knowing that it would extend our time together? She hasn't responded to my text from last night, which I'm sure she knows was a drunk one, although my spelling was impeccable. Obviously if she doesn't respond, she doesn't care and her interest was actually low. I would like to know if I made the right judgment for future reference since there's no fixing this situation. Usually it's a lot easier to tell - the girl is either all over me or clearly not interested in kissing, etc. when we're together. This one was the one who initiated the kissing but then doesn't want to talk outside of that? Very confusing. Thanks. Edited July 10, 2011 by lance.dark
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