Mylou.xo Posted July 10, 2011 Posted July 10, 2011 Hi everyone!! First off, thanks for reading my message I appreciate tons!! Okay, so me and my boyfriend have known each other all our lives, we are both from a small town of about 1000 people so it's the kind of place that everyone knows everything about everyone, you know? And I know that he is a very trust whorty guy. He was in a relationship before me with a girl for 2 1/2 years and they were about to get engaged when they finally broke up because things had just been off for a few months. He had bought a ring and everything, but they decided it was more a thing they were doing to save their relationship, so it didn't happen. Then about a year later, me and him started dating and everything is going great! We're really happy together and everything. My boyfriend is someone with a lot of ambitions and who always wants to help others, it's crazy!, So for this summer, he decided to go work in a Summer Camp located in another Province and about 6 hours from here. I know it dosen't seem so far when I say it, but he works 10 straight days 6:30 am to about 12:00 pm, and at the end of his 10 days he really needs to catch up on the rest and get ready for the next group of kids that get there within 48 hours of the last one. He came to see me once during the summer for less than 48 hours and he slept most of time he was here which I totally understand and makes perfect sense, but even tho he was so tired, he didn't neglect me at all. It makes it really difficult for us to talk on the phone, and he barely has any internet access where he is, and most of the sites we would use to communicate are blocked. I am getting very frustrated with this whole situation, I know that I can trust him ( I know every girl say that about their boyfriend and I know it's sounds cliche) there is not the problem but it's simply hard. Knowing that we are going to be appart for 3 months hurt. So the advice that I am looking for is, what can I do to keep my mind off of him, and get myself worked up that it is only 3 months (even tho when I say it it feels like an eternity)... Thanks everyone and sorry for the huge post!!
madjac74 Posted July 10, 2011 Posted July 10, 2011 Well 3 months is nothing but I understand if you have almost no communication that it would drive you crazy and the time would seem to crawl. Well the best thing to do is stay busy...spend time with friends, when you are missing him call a close friend and get your mind off it, throw yourself into your hobbies and if you dont have any try and discover some. I write and draw and when Im into that the time just flies by. Also read some stories on here and see how far apart some people are and how long they have been apart. It may put you at ease in your own situation. For example, I havent seen my GF in a year for many difficult reasons and we have no idea when we can finally be together for good.
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