Was this right or wrong??

[Ally-65]

So I saw my ex in the street today. Suprised it hasn't happened before as he lives two doors down.

Anyway, he said hello as he was walking towards me, I didn't look at him, didn't acknowledge him in any way. Just walked into my house and shut the door.

Was this wrong? Has it made me look childish or ??

I said at the BU that I could not/would not ever be his friend.

I didn't really feel anything when I saw him, but am now wondering how this would have been perceived!!

[Ally-65]

I would say that this really depends on why you guys broke up.. if he dumped you and seeing him hurts to much, then I understand. But if you dumped him it seems kind of harsh. What actually happend?

 

He dumped me and at the time, I was devastated. He saw that. Since then NC from me and just one general text from him, that was ignored.

[TheHurtProcess]

So I saw my ex in the street today. Suprised it hasn't happened before as he lives two doors down.

Anyway, he said hello as he was walking towards me, I didn't look at him, didn't acknowledge him in any way. Just walked into my house and shut the door.

Was this wrong? Has it made me look childish or ??

I said at the BU that I could not/would not ever be his friend.

I didn't really feel anything when I saw him, but am now wondering how this would have been perceived!!

 

There really is no right or wrong. All is fair in love and war. If he dumped you and expects that you two can be friends after you specifically told him that you couldn't, then what did he expect? You're only living up to your promise. I can't be friends after a breakup either. Many people can't. I probably would have been much harsher personally.

 

If my ex was standing outside my house as I was walking in and she decided to say a single word to me, I'd probably snap on her. She'd get an earful. I'd remind her of exactly what it was I told her the last time we spoke. That I really don't like the person she's turned out to be. The person I met three years ago is dead and gone. The person who remains is a self-centered shell of her former self.

 

She'd only be proving her utter self-indulgence by talking to me at this point. Your ex obviously has no respect for your wishes. You did the right thing.