gamechanger Posted July 10, 2011 Posted July 10, 2011 my ex and i have been out of contact for a month and recently shes texted me 4 different times in the past couple of days about information that is way superficial and tidbits about the same things that we use to follow together and things that are happening in her life... i know shes officially dating another person... i haven't responded bc of the NC, but wtf is she trying to do?
Crisis Posted July 10, 2011 Posted July 10, 2011 She's trying to see if your still chasing her. If she really wanted you to know she wanted to come back, she would have said she wanted you back. It seems like she is trying to rub it in your face and make you jealous. Be the mature one and don't respond, in fact, just ignore her whole life. If there is a way to erase her from sending you stuff like that then erase it or put an end to it. Like me, I deleted my ex as a friend on facebook. That way I never have to see her life and she won't see mine. If they want to come back you will know, but don't let them play these childish mind games with you. It's cruel. I'm sorry this is going on, but don't let it get to you. She knows what she is doing. Don't fall for the trap, your going about it right.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted July 10, 2011 Posted July 10, 2011 fishing to see if you are still on her string. If it doesn't work out with her new guy then she can be reassured that you are her safety net if you reply.
stray Posted July 10, 2011 Posted July 10, 2011 New relationship isn't satisfying and you're plan B, maybe even plan C. Do you want to be plan B or C? No? Then, don't respond. It's just games.
CaliBabe Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 She's poking around to see if she still has you, don't take the bait. Show her you are better than that!
Chi townD Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 Agreed..she's playing games...stay NC. Sooner or later, she's take the hint.
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