TuffCookieX Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Started talking to a guy on a dating website back in March... we had some mutual friends - actually I dated one of his housemates 10 months ago. He seemed a little iffy of the fact that I had seen one of his housemates and our conversation died out and we went on with our lives. His "about me" on the dating site states that he's really into sporty/nerdy girls with sneakers, and he actually has a high preference for Asians. I'm more of a heels/party girl and I'm Caucasian. I'm also into clubbing and drinking and he does none of the above. We are extremely different but I am VERY attracted to him. Anyway, just a few days ago I saw he posted on his facebook that he was at the same beach I was and I asked him about it. It turned into a lengthy conversation and we exchanged numbers, now he's been texting me quite a bit and wants to hang out next week when he is back in town. He seems really persistent about it and I'm really looking forward to it too. I really don't fit into what he's looking for at all, is this just a setup for failure? Link to post Share on other sites
Nexus One Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 (edited) Every now and then a guy can discovers a "new" type that he adds to his list of types, with the addition of a new type a whole new dimension opens up to him. You might be new for him in the sense of attraction, so he might be realizing that he's actually attracted to you even though he never realized before that he could be attracted to girls like you. Everyone is learning about themselves every day, just like we know relatively little about the oceans and the universe, in the same way we know very little about ourselves and discover new things about ourselves as we go along. Edited July 10, 2011 by Nexus One Link to post Share on other sites
Author TuffCookieX Posted July 10, 2011 Author Share Posted July 10, 2011 Thanks guys, I love your answers. Got my spirits up! Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 OMG wtf @ Red Stop worrying about types. If he is into WTF does it matter Link to post Share on other sites
Author TuffCookieX Posted July 10, 2011 Author Share Posted July 10, 2011 Partying does not go hand in hand with easy sex. I actually withheld sex from his housemate the whole time we saw eachother so he knows that's not my deal. And last time I checked, 108 pounds was not fat. Are you into anorexic girls? You are gross. Link to post Share on other sites
RedRussian8080 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Wow, a baseless personal attack with an emotional and illogical knee jerk response wile not seeing the fact that i never called YOU fat... Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Correct. RR actually called you loose. Where do you think people get their "types" from? Generally from being in love with someone in the past that had a certain look. The only problem is, they dont' always know what to do with it and it's too late. So then they're stuck with this type thing. It's really silly, imo to even bother with types. I have had different types over the years, and totally lost my attraction to a type I had, because he was a complete douchebag. Link to post Share on other sites
RedRussian8080 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I may be your type to be honest.... Link to post Share on other sites
milkmaterial Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 hmm i think you should go out with a guy who doesnt have a preference. for example, my friend mike, he prefers blondes. im not. but he liked me, i knew, he told me. he wanted me. but at the end of the day i know im just a deli and he wants good ol steak and potatoes. my friend sam, he likes and wants me or so he says, but he told me he that it would be "ideal" if he meets a girl from his country of origin (and maybe the same religion). i really like this guy to be honest. its almost liek a bowl of cold jello and im parched in the desert. but no. what am i , a masochist? (ok i am but not if i can avoid it) so just save urself for someone who desires you as you. Link to post Share on other sites
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