DuskCrush Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 (edited) oh my god ...so last week i called a guy i had liked but had a falling out with...the conversation went really well...he was flirty and interested in my life. I figured i took the initiated and now the ball was in his court....FLash forward to this morning.....i was feeling sick, rolled out of bed...and grabbed my phone....i have a touch scren phone....anyway ーー＞ somehow i accidently dialed that guy's number. It was like 7.25 in the morning and im sleepy and his voice comes on the speaker and im like WTF...and i panic and just end the call. Of course....i then start wondering if he knows it was me or not....so 10 mins later ....i call back...he comes on the phone and seems guarded and pissy. I cant tell if he saved my number from before and knew it was me because all he said was - hello and then yes. So I just quicky explain that i accidently called him before and that i was sorry. Then weirdly he says -im sorry - i dont know why ... just think he didnt know what to say....so i just say sorry again and hang up ( cuz i was feeling weird). what do you guys think...did I totally blow my chances and come across like a freak? 2) Do you think he saved my number and knew it was me calling or was he quiet and gaurded cuz he didn't know it was me and didnt want to talk to me again? ps.....omg i feel so embarrassed by the whole thing. Edited July 9, 2011 by DuskCrush
phineas Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 Need to know how much you jerked him around before he stopped talking to you (the falling out) first.
leftfordead2 Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 oh my god ...so last week i called a guy i had liked but had a falling out with...the conversation went really well...he was flirty and interested in my life. I figured i took the initiated and now the ball was in his court....FLash forward to this morning.....i was feeling sick, rolled out of bed...and grabbed my phone....i have a touch scren phone....anyway ーー＞ somehow i accidently dialed that guy's number. It was like 7.25 in the morning and im sleepy and his voice comes on the speaker and im like WTF...and i panic and just end the call. Of course....i then start wondering if he knows it was me or not....so 10 mins later ....i call back...he comes on the phone and seems guarded and pissy. I cant tell if he saved my number from before and knew it was me because all he said was - hello and then yes. So I just quicky explain that i accidently called him before and that i was sorry. Then weirdly he says -im sorry - i dont know why ... just think he didnt know what to say....so i just say sorry again and hang up ( cuz i was feeling weird). what do you guys think...did I totally blow my chances and come across like a freak? 2) Do you think he saved my number and knew it was me calling or was he quiet and gaurded cuz he didn't know it was me and didnt want to talk to me again? ps.....omg i feel so embarrassed by the whole thing. What did you guys fall out over?
Imajerk17 Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 I don't think it's the end of the world. Mistakes happen, you dialed his number by accident--easy to do-- and it was awkward. Text him in a few days and make a joke of it.
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 A phone snafu is not going to make or break your chances.
Author DuskCrush Posted July 9, 2011 Author Posted July 9, 2011 Phineas - i jerked him around quite a bit...he jerked me around too...it was a few months of jerking each other around. just a basic push pull dynamic...with up and down attraction and interest levels. Left - long story. read above for simple explanation. Smile - we are both later 20s ....yes i know i seem really childish.
bluenightowl Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 I can't see why it would bother him that much. You explained what happened. But I'd just play it cool. not need to bring it up again. You sound a bit anxious.
Author DuskCrush Posted July 9, 2011 Author Posted July 9, 2011 yeah blue....but maybe he thinks im messing with him...that i did it on purpose to get attention. or maybe his was just acting pissy to discourage me from calling him again.
Kamille Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 A phone snafu is not going to make or break your chances. Or if it does, it really wasn't a relationship worth your while to begin with. Honestly DuskCrush, if a minor incident like this is creating resentment and/or paranoia, maybe you should question if the crush is worth the negative energy it generates. Put another way: in a good potential relationship, what just happened would be funny.
Lucky_One Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 I think he was guarded and quiet because he had someone in bed with him. You called twice, and he keeps his side of the conversation neutral so that he doesn't get a lot of questions from his GF about why some chick is calling him twice at 7:30 am.
Nexus One Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 I think he was guarded and quiet because he had someone in bed with him. You called twice, and he keeps his side of the conversation neutral so that he doesn't get a lot of questions from his GF about why some chick is calling him twice at 7:30 am. That's a huuuge assumption.
Author DuskCrush Posted July 9, 2011 Author Posted July 9, 2011 Lucky...it sounded like he was outside...there was the sound of cars. kamille- i know...im starting to finally realize that this is most likely a no hope situation and I feel sad. No guy acts so standoffish with a girl he's still into...albeit was a very brief conversation but his vibe was closed.
dreamingoftigers Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 If you are both the type to jerk each other around, perhaps it is best to avoid each other period. You'll always second-guess each other.
Author DuskCrush Posted July 10, 2011 Author Posted July 10, 2011 Tigers - if only it was that easy...i guess i just need to leave him alone.
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