bumblebee123 Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 About a week ago my ex who broke up with me contacted me through IM. It had been about half a year since we spoke and over a year since we split. For about as long as we hadn't talked he had stopped logging on IM and deleted his facebook and some other social site profiles (or blocked me, doesn't matter really) and just returned. He basically said he was really sad that we weren't friends anymore and he felt like i was mad at him. We ended up talking and flirting a bit on video chat...nothing sexual!- though he seemed to hint at interest in it. And he mentioned seeing a picture posted online that he thought was me. It was one of those "sexting pics that got leaked by some jerk" sort of ordeals- it wasn't me anyways, but i don't know why he brought it up. I felt like he was checking in on me or something. I have to admit i still have a little residual interest in him, but i know it's a 100% bad idea to get involved again. And we were very good friends before we started dating so i also do miss the 'friend' bit also. But i just don't know how to read his behavior and whether it is blunt or he has other motives. I really don't want this to get complicated.
janica Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 there is a reason why he became an ex. analyze the reason, and what you'll do if it happens again. and it will happen again, with 100% certainty.
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