mizzdeepa Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 I'm 24 and recently I've been seeing this 27 year old guy with a 3 year old son. When we first met and spoke, I never pursued anything because I was going through a breakup at the time and finishing up school. However, the past month we've been seeing each other, spending quality time, and we had a conversation about our relationship, in which we both decided we didn't want any commitments. I recently went through a heartbreak and this guy completely got my mind over it. Since we've been spending so much time together though, I've caught feelings and I'm getting attached, but he admitted to me that he likes me and cares for me and doesn't want to see me get hurt. The other night I went to his place, he made me dinner, walked to the store to get my favorite drink, gave me a full body massage, and cooked breakfast at 4am, while I was in bed watching out a movie and served it to me. He is absolutely amazing and I haven't put my all into it, which I usually do and I'm proud of. Honestly, I know by looking in his eyes, the way he treats me, the way he talks to me, questions me, listens to every detail, that there's a lot of feelings there. Him having a child doesn't bother me, it's just the fact that I've never had a real relationship before and him having a child puts me in second place. Should I continue this? or am I just setting myself up for a big disappointment. I mean I really like him a lot and I see so much potential and I know the only reason he doesn't want the commitment is because he was hurt before and because his son is his number one priority. He is a wonderful father to his son and a wonderful man to me, he treats me so good. I'm so confused, I don't know what to do! Please someone give me some advice.
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