Boyfriend Moving Soon pt 2

[nicky22]

I've been posting about my first boyfriend moving in a month and we had a talk and I had thought he didn't want a ldr but he was more upset i was having a hard time coping with the move. So we plan to stay together and while this is a good thing I don't plan for it to last very long and at the most maybe a few months. The main thing is dreading the date he moves. I have began to feel that when he isn't with me I am alone. I know I still have time with him but I need to almost plan things in just so I know he is still here. Basically when he isn't with me I miss him and can only really think of him and that maybe I am wasting the time we have together. So coping is the real problem because while the moving date is still in the air he has said it will be aug 12th. Any advice will help thanks in advance

[madjac74]

So are you saying you are going to stay with him until he moves and then the relationship is over? If so, are you going to make him aware of this?

[HeavenOrHell]

Your post isn't very clear, not sure what you wanted help/advice with, please can you clarify

[nicky22]

Sorry guys I was a little unclear. I'm not going to leave him once he moves but I know our ldr won't last long because I can't trust him. and basically I was asking how to cope with him leaving. Like how to not keep that date on my mind when we hang or when I'm not with him.

[madjac74]

You are still being unclear!!! You don't want to end it when he moves but you know the relationship isn't going to last? Do you understand how contradicting that is?

[nicky22]

I do now lol. I was trying to say we will still be together after he moves I just don't expect it to last long and it bums me out. After pointing it out though I do understand how it is contradicting itself.