abyssalsmile Posted April 22, 2004 Posted April 22, 2004 I definitely need advice how do you deal with being pregnant from a mm with child support . Should I just file paperwork or just go by word of mouth. he is willing to help but I just dont know if i should do that i feel bad because he has always been there for me help
HokeyReligions Posted April 22, 2004 Posted April 22, 2004 Make sure that you have him on the birth certificate as the father! If the two of you agree to child support payments and he makes them, then you are okay. But if he does not then you can file for it legally. You can talk to an attorney right now for some guidance without actually filing. Is he going to be part of his childs life?
Girlie Posted April 22, 2004 Posted April 22, 2004 This may be just the atty in me speaking, but I would file the papers after the child is born. He may not like it, but it allows you, not only to be establish child support, but also custody and visitation. Quite frankly, he should want those things (at least the last one) determined, too.
meagara Posted April 23, 2004 Posted April 23, 2004 Why were you dating a married man in the first place? I know stuff happens, but you should have been a little bit more careful. Make sure he signs the papers claiming the child is his, but keep custody of your child. Keep it peaceful, the last thing you want is a battle which could end up losing your child. Next time be more smart and careful. Married Men are trouble.
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