rolie Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 My partner cheated on me when i was 7 months pregnant, with a prostitute. he confessed a week later. my baby is now 5 months old and i cant even begin to forgive him. There is still so much anger in considering how much i gave him. I chose him over my family left my hometown and moved to a new country all for him. i cant say i was the perfect girlfriend considering my hormones but i was devoted and now i feel worthless and stupid for staying. He has always been good to me prior.. what im saying is how do I move pass this, and is it possible (those who have experience this) to rekindle our relationship?
gpatb43 Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 My partner cheated on me when i was 7 months pregnant, with a prostitute. he confessed a week later. my baby is now 5 months old and i cant even begin to forgive him. There is still so much anger in considering how much i gave him. I chose him over my family left my hometown and moved to a new country all for him. i cant say i was the perfect girlfriend considering my hormones but i was devoted and now i feel worthless and stupid for staying. He has always been good to me prior.. what im saying is how do I move pass this, and is it possible (those who have experience this) to rekindle our relationship? Of course its possible - its also very very hard, and you are going to have to answer some tough questions. Look through the boards - you'll see a mixture of success stories and failures. But ultimately you have to make your own decisions - is he worth fighting for, is he showing you he will fight for the marriage and for you, is he committed genuinely to working through the 'why he did it' with you, is he trying to justify what he did, and are you prepared to move on with him? I am sorry to hear your pain and wish you real luck with this, whichever way you decide.
bentnotbroken Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 IF you cannot forgive...my advice would be to move on. There is no use living your life in misery and allowing your child to live there with you. If you choose to stay, forgiveness is one of the most important steps you will need to take toward living healthy.
rafallus Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 (edited) Actually, you must forgive, whether you stay or not. In fact, it becomes kinda easier, if you don't have to deal with him on a daily basis, so you get mind off this. Working things out isn't always possible, but if you feel like it... Edited July 9, 2011 by rafallus
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