Kzway Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 So me and the lady of 5 months split up on sunday of this week. Didn't end to well, found out she had a crush on one of her friends and was going and hanging out with him behind my back along with getting drunk/high with him. To me I see this flopping in a month time, I give it that way. So to the point, I've done fantastic on NC and yet she has maybe gone 1 day this week without trying some what of contacting me, may it be she heard I said something about her or she needs to pick up her "stuff". As for the items she needs they are of no near important yet she constantly texts me saying she will be over to pick up her stuff in the next few days. As if I need a constant reminder that I have her stuff in my house. Now the part that gets me is how flip floppy she is and how she wants the things returned to her! She will not pick it up if I leave it outside in a bag on the porch for her to get, she'll come up with any excuse in the book as in "well I'm busy that day or blah blah blah." Seems to me she wants me to PHYSICALLY hand her the items. I don't see why she needs that? I could easily take it to her at her house, but the chances of me running into her are 99% due to the fact she does nothing during the day as of work or school. Any idea on what I can do to get this girl away from me permanently? Tho friends and family say even tho she has a new "crush" just doesn't mean anything at this moment as he's a rebound guy clearly. I know giving her the stuff will solve a bit, but I know this girl and she's going to try to keep contact any way possible may it be from friends or family of mine.
TheHurtProcess Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 Do you two have any mutual friends that you could have deliver the goods for you? How about one of your friends? One of hers? I know how it goes. My ex has yet to get her things and it's been a month since we've broken up and I'm on week 4 of NC. Perhaps they are of no importance, but I dont want to just throw them away. I might just give them to a mutual friend myself. Thanks for giving me the chance to give you advice as well as myself, haha.
whatdoido1717 Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 Have a friend drop her stuff off. Seems like the easiest solution for you.
TheHurtProcess Posted July 9, 2011 Posted July 9, 2011 Have a friend drop her stuff off. Seems like the easiest solution for you. Ditto!!! Do I hear an echo in here? hahaha
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