GivenUp0083 Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 Weird story, I'm not worried or looking to take any kind of action, just thought I'd share this and see what people's reactions are: My ex broke up with me a little over 2 months ago (I'm doing great by the way, don't miss her at all, lost 25 lbs, my body looks pretty sweet ), and her best friend since high school is dating one of my good guy friends. He's a bit older and going through a lot in his life as he's going through a drawn out divorce process, his new business collapsed and filed for bankruptcy, had other girls break his heart, etc. Anyway, about 3 weeks after my ex dumped me, her friend dumped my friend. My buddy is more thick skinned and they weren't together as long or in love or anything so he wasn't hurt by it. He decided to play along with being friends with her, meaning they've stayed in touch via texting many times a week, even spoke on the phone a few times for the last month. They hung out a couple times over the 4th of july holiday but he said it was with her work friends and it was awkward. She has basically told him she dumped him because he was in a negative mood a lot and that he didn't make enough effort to make her happy or be with her. He agreed to try and improve this but he says she isn't really giving him a fair opportunity. (side note: I warned him about staying friends with an ex, but he said he had never done it before and wanted to try it). Well he tells me the other day he had no one to hang out with during the 4th and she knew that, yet didn't invite him to hang out because she was hanging out with my ex and her other close friends. He realized that she was hiding him from my ex. He told me a couple days ago that he suspects that my ex has been pressuring her to dump him and cut him loose and that she's stayed in touch with him behind her close friends back (including my ex). He thinks my ex is having a huge negative influence on his girl. I told him he's probably just being paranoid. He went on a bike ride with a friend and a car hit him and he broke his wrists on the fall and has casts on both hands now. He talked to his girl and told her what happened, and then told her everything that was bothering him about her not giving him a real chance and that if she's not really into this then they shouldn't make a half assed attempt, etc. Then he says "I suspect that [my ex] is influencing her on what to do about us and that she should just make her own decision instead of worrying about what her friends think". He said she went silent. Didn't respond. The conversation ended on good terms shortly after, basically told her to think about that and decide where she stands, if she's in or out. Then he gets a text message from my ex (He didn't even know she had his number) saying "hey, sorry about your wrists, hope you feel better!". ------------ W.....T.....F! This is just showing me how much of a whore my ex really is, I mean wow, what a btch! Who sabotages their friend's relationships? What is she getting out of this? She's so insecure that she's probably trying to get all her other friends to be single "with her" because she's realizing it sucks being single in your late 20's when everyone else you know has a boyfriend. Welcome to my life, all my friends are fricken married for the most part. This is just my rant, but I'm blown away. Even if I was with my ex still and in love with her I'd be like "WTF are you doing? Stay out of other people's business!" I mean wow, just wow....
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