Kiki37 Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 (edited) Hi everyone. I am really stuck here and is in desperate need of help! My bf of one-and-a-half month told me earlier that "Something is missing, that something is not clicking" for him in regards to how he feels about me, yet he said that he was going to need time to think about it. He has not called/texted me since that day (about a week ago). Is this the end for us? I am not sure what to do about it. Everyone is telling me not to contact him, yet I kinda don't want to drag this on forever. If he doesn't contact me forever, does this mean I am to not date anyone else forever? Or should I just call him and end it over the phone? If we both refuse to contact each other and let this relationship fade away, is that the same as ending it officially with a break up? If it really is that bad, then I want to confront him in person about all the things he had put me through, but I don't know how to get him to meet up with me. Should I even bother? Edited July 8, 2011 by Kiki37
Eeyore79 Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 It sounds like he's done a vanishing act on you, which means he's a complete loser who didn't even have the decency to break up with you, and you dodged a bullet. I'd recommend calling him to ask what's going on, and if there's no satisfactory resolution then just dump him. Dropping contact for a whole week is simply not acceptable behavior.
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