Kuite09 Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Kuite09, I know how you feel, I wake up every morning and she is the first thought in my mind. She and I are not kids either, she is 37 and I am 45. All I can do at this point is leave her alone and let God work on her. Keep your self busy and "try" not to think about the situation. It's hard but you can do it. Remember that you are not alone, we're going through this together. Thanks so much Chuck
Kuite09 Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Thanks so much Chuck Chuck, How long were you guys together for again? and how long you been broken up? Was this your first break up with her?
Author Chuck Bartowski Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 Chuck, How long were you guys together for again? and how long you been broken up? Was this your first break up with her? Kuite09 We were together for 8 years and 3 months. We broke up in 08 for about 6 weeks. We have been broken up this time since the day after mothers day. I miss her very much and the days just don't seem to get any better. The thing that hurts the most is I could have avoided all this if I had just married her like she wanted. My pain is my fault.
Kuite09 Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Kuite09 We were together for 8 years and 3 months. We broke up in 08 for about 6 weeks. We have been broken up this time since the day after mothers day. I miss her very much and the days just don't seem to get any better. The thing that hurts the most is I could have avoided all this if I had just married her like she wanted. My pain is my fault. Oh wow 8yrs is a long time, kinda like me. For me it was 7yrs and in 2007 we had a break for about a year. He broke up with me the first time too for a lot of the same reasons. A lot of arguing and some trust issues on my part. It took him a bit but he did come running back and won my heart again and of course thats when I was fine being single again and loving the single life again. We broke it up in March but we stayed in a lot of contact cuz right after the break up my grandfather passed away and then in April my neice was hospitalized so he was there for me thru that whole time. So yea we were broken up but talking every other day but then in May is when I flipped and I guess the break up really hit me.
Author Chuck Bartowski Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 Kuite09, I was going to send you a PM but you're not set up for that. You have to be a paid member to do this. It's only $2.50 and worth it. I have been in contact with a few members and got some great advice.
Kuite09 Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Kuite09, I was going to send you a PM but you're not set up for that. You have to be a paid member to do this. It's only $2.50 and worth it. I have been in contact with a few members and got some great advice. Oh sorry I am not a paid member.
Author Chuck Bartowski Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 Thats fine, Just keep posting here if you need to get things off your mind. There are a lot of us going through this and we will make it. I promise.
Kuite09 Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Thats fine, Just keep posting here if you need to get things off your mind. There are a lot of us going through this and we will make it. I promise. thanks so much Chuck. Im here for you too
Author Chuck Bartowski Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 thanks so much Chuck. Im here for you too Always remember this, Good friends never leave you;)
Author Chuck Bartowski Posted July 20, 2011 Author Posted July 20, 2011 Well, Today was 4 weeks NC. The NC part is getting easier but I still miss her very much. She lives an hour away from me and I no longer have the need to go up to her area. Of coarse today I had a training class that required me to go to our corporate office that is 10 minutes from her house. Needless to say, I had a hard time concentrating on the actual class. I just wonder if she even thinks about me or misses me at all.
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