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Why doesn't he care for me at all?


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Me and my boyfriend recently broke up. I guess i knew it was coming. Honestly i was cheating on him for most of the time that we went out with another guy. I met this guy a few years ago. When we first met he told me he loved me. And that he wanted to date me and all this stuff. But i was going out with another guy at the time. So i kind of strung him along while dating the other guy. When we me and the other guy broke up i ended up going out with him. He dumped me within two weeks of going out. Stopped talking to me. He called me every now and then for sex but if i played too hard to get it he would just hang up and ignore my calls. Basically the only time he talks to me is when he wants sex.

 

A few months ago after we had sex i made a joke about him not being smart. He cussed me out for a good ten minutes called me every name in the book and told me never to talk to him again. Then he just left. He ended up calling around a month later for sex.

 

He always treats me badly. He has a girlfriend and when she is around he treats me like dirt. If i text him while he is with her he cusses me out. But he said he used to care about me. And i want him so badly. I have wanted him. He is my perfect guy but he treats me like some kind of object. Why doesn't he love me? How can i get him to love me?

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Sounds to me like you both treated each other like dirt.

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He is my perfect guy but he treats me like some kind of object

 

Read that sentence to yourself several times.

Allow how stupid it sounds to really be absorbed.

Would the perfect man treat you like an object? Get him off the pedestal.

 

And as for how he treats you - what goes around comes around.

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