RareBreed Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 Hola Love Shackers, im back once again. I deleted my ex a few days ago who left me for another guy ... & its been months since ive heard from her and todaaay... i get a text that says.. "SO YOU DONT KNOW ME ANYMORE?" lmao... Anyways, I'm beyond over her and the fact that she left me for someone else, and i'm interested in being aquaintances but not friends.. & i sure as hell am not interested in the lovey dovey things shes posting about this new guy... soo i deleted her. So my question is... what do you think my proper response should be to this text. thanks for your responses in advance.
TheHurtProcess Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 I personally don't think it even deserves a response. I'd just forget about her altogether. She moved on. Perhaps you should just move on as well.
HLP234 Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 She did move on and is trying to get you to feel bad because you won't be her friend. She can't have both she should get that. Her new bf is also her friend so if she left you then you have to forget it. You don't need to say anything smart back or anything at all. Just forget it and don't say anything she may be tempted to say something else. Even if she does, she will eventually get bored with no response and stop.
poorguy Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 A good response..will be none. Any other response will just further a game. So zero, nothing..at all!! She has what she wants now...well except for you!!! She wants a little piece of that to complete her....DO not give it to her!!! Silence says so much more than words could ever say...its powerful
RodG Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 Your response should be complete and utter indifference. Look at the text and delete it for it is meaningless.
SugarLily Posted July 10, 2011 Posted July 10, 2011 I think that the fact that she would take the time out to make that point kinda suggests to me that she isn't over you. Being with/dating someone else isn't really a reflection of how she feels about you. Trust me, i've dated a few guys when my boyfriend and I have broken up - and I still thought about him/missed him every day. The fact that she's posting 'lovey dovey' things about this new guy also suggests that she is actively going out of her way to make you jealous. I've found (as a girl) that most girls need to know that their ex still cares for them/wants them back. It seems like she's using this poor guy to provoke a reaction from you. If she was genuinely happy, she wouldn't need to advertise her new relationship the way she has been - and she certainly wouldn't be contacting you. x
Chuck Bartowski Posted July 10, 2011 Posted July 10, 2011 If you are not interested in getting back with her then just delete the text. She Doesn't deserve a response or any attention from you at all. Just keep moving forward matey.
Woggle Posted July 10, 2011 Posted July 10, 2011 In other word she is mad because her backup plan is no longer in play.
wilsonx Posted July 11, 2011 Posted July 11, 2011 I've found (as a girl) that most girls need to know that their ex still cares for them/wants them back. This is a 100% true. The best thing to do is be indifferent. Just read the text message, shrug your shoulders, delete it and move on with the amazing chick you are trying to start seeing. It will kill them inside, plus if your ex noticed you deleted her, shes keeping tabs on you You did the right thing, stick to NC and just move on
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