AmericanHoney Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 I am currently on my monthly and my BF is mad because I can't have sex. Isn't that kinda petty?? He asked me to do it anal and that's just gross IMHO and he got all mad.
Arabella Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 If my boyfriend pulled that one, I'd be throwing his ass out of the house on the spot. If your boyfriend needs to have his needs satisfied, he can either: a) jerk off, b) have sex with you blood and all (if you want to). One thing is for sure: he has NO right to get upset because you have your period. That's just messed up.
Author AmericanHoney Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 I know! I cannot help it I am a girl. Excuse me for living! Maybe I need to dump his *** if that's all he can think about is getting laid.
yellow_brick_road Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 He is only concerned about having his own needs met. In his eyes, you're simply a booty call. I'm sorry to have to tell you this but you should seriously think about dumping him. I would never get mad at my g/f for having her monthly time. It's nice to have a little time off for a few days to build back some emotional connection. Apparently he has no interest in doing that.
sabienne Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Do you mind me asking...how old are you and your boyfriend? Any man who is of college age or older and is actually upset about a period does not deserve the privelege of having sex with you. Also hun, please be wary of any man who does not respect you saying no at ANY time. This is a massive red flag and something you should take into account before deciding whether he's worth continuing a relationship with. A real man respects no at any time. Be very careful with anyone who doesn't. Good luck!
Arabella Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 A real man respects no at any time. Be very careful with anyone who doesn't. Extremely important point! This guy just doesn't seem to respect you at all, OP.
Author AmericanHoney Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 I thought he actually respected me and cared but I guess to him I am simply a booty call. He seemed okay with no sex and then he asked if I would do anal and when I said no he got all mad. Shouldn't a guy respect me and not get all ticked because I cannot have anal.
johan Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 He's an assh*le. So he's only really going to relate well to your assh*le. The rest of you is just a hassle.
sabienne Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 Shouldn't a guy respect me and not get all ticked because I cannot have anal. YES! He should ALWAYS respect you. I hope you do what is best for you.
dreamingoftigers Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 ^^^well put! OP my h (back before the sexual addiction days cane about full force) was happy just to get some head during my monthly. Forget this guy, he's a moron
SmileFace Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 He's an assh*le. So he's only really going to relate well to your assh*le. The rest of you is just a hassle.[/QUote] ^^^^^^^^This
Author AmericanHoney Posted July 8, 2011 Author Posted July 8, 2011 He hasn't talked to me since I said no. I tried calling him and it goes straight to VM. What a freaking jerk! I thought he actually cared but this proves he just wanted me for sex nothing more.
Feelsgoodman Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 I thought he actually respected me and cared but I guess to him I am simply a booty call. He seemed okay with no sex and then he asked if I would do anal and when I said no he got all mad. Shouldn't a guy respect me and not get all ticked because I cannot have anal. You don't have menstruation in your anus, so why can't you have anal??
Country_Girl Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 You don't have menstruation in your anus, so why can't you have anal?? Because she obviously doesn't want to, and she shouldn't have to. OP- This guy seems like a douche, and he doesn't respect you. Now he's not answering your calls? He sounds immature, I would seriously consider leaving him.
Author AmericanHoney Posted July 8, 2011 Author Posted July 8, 2011 The point of the matter is someone should respect your decision. Alot of ladies don't want any kind of sex during their time of the month. If all he can think about is getting sex and not respecting my decision and getting mad over that then he really isn't the person I thought he was. Relationships should be based on communication and respecting each other and if someone cannot respect that then they really aren't worthy now are they?? No means No matter what and guilt tripping someone ya that doesn't work either.
Arabella Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 You got it right, OP. Now tell that to him and go find someone who deserves you.
Author AmericanHoney Posted July 8, 2011 Author Posted July 8, 2011 I keep trying but he is ignoring me. Great to know our relationship was just based on sex. Well I will delete his number!
Art_Critic Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 (edited) Is it him that won't have sex while you are on your period or you ? It doesn't make sense to me that he would not want blood on his penis but he would like shiot instead.. Edited July 8, 2011 by Art_Critic
Lucky_One Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 #1 He would be a whole lot more upset if you weren't have a period this month. Tell him to be thankful you aren't pregnant. #2 Stop calling him. He was the jerk, so why are you going to chase after him?
2sunny Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 Shouldn't a guy respect me and not get all ticked because I cannot have anal. He's mad because I can't have sex it's best if you get specific with your chosen words. there's a big difference between being incapable of having sex and being unwilling. you are unwilling. he is just a dork.
TheCoolest Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 Uh throw a towel on the bed and get down. Thats what me and my girl do. And does having your period mean that your mouth doesn't work... I mean not saying he should force you to do it. But if he is that horny help him out.
Author AmericanHoney Posted July 8, 2011 Author Posted July 8, 2011 He finally called me and then yelled at me asking what my deal was. He said he was " busy" I hear that one alot lately:sick: How can someone be sooo freaking busy that they do not have the decency to call u back. Seriously!!
Art_Critic Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 He finally called me and then yelled at me asking what my deal was. He said he was " busy" I hear that one alot lately:sick: How can someone be sooo freaking busy that they do not have the decency to call u back. Seriously!! Time to rethink this guy AH... he sounds like head case
Author AmericanHoney Posted July 8, 2011 Author Posted July 8, 2011 That's what I say! I mean relationships should be based on communciation and trust and when someone is so freaking busy they do not have the decency to call you back there is something wrong right?? No one can be soooo freaking busy they cannot call you back. Unless you are A-doctor b- lying in the hospital c- dead You should at least call someone back am I right?
2sunny Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 He finally called me and then yelled at me asking what my deal was. He said he was " busy" I hear that one alot lately:sick: How can someone be sooo freaking busy that they do not have the decency to call u back. Seriously!! why bother answering this selfish guys call? block his number.
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