Desensitized Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 (edited) Hey all, So I recently hung out with this girl I know last night, and when we stopped hanging out and I dropped her off, she texted me saying, "I wish you were here." I texted her in the morning saying that I fell asleep as soon as I got home, so i didn't have to respond to her text. A couple hours after I sent that, she told me that she can't stop thinking about me. I didn't know how to respond to that, so I said, "good thoughts, I hope." She said, "Just how I want to spend more time with you." I am not interested in this girl, but would like to remain good friends. How can I let her know that I'm not really interested in a nice way? I've tried thinking of things to say back to that, but I don't know at all. Thanks Edited July 7, 2011 by Desensitized
iJester Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 This girl is not going to be your friend, even if she agrees to it. She is going to cling like crazy. Either **** this girl and do all the dirty things you ever wanted to do to a chick, or tell her, in no uncertain terms, there is no chance and she needs to leave you alone. Don't torture the girl with friendship. Be harsh and mean if you have to..or just never respond to anything she sends you again.
Author Desensitized Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 This girl is not going to be your friend, even if she agrees to it. She is going to cling like crazy. Either **** this girl and do all the dirty things you ever wanted to do to a chick, or tell her, in no uncertain terms, there is no chance and she needs to leave you alone. Don't torture the girl with friendship. Be harsh and mean if you have to..or just never respond to anything she sends you again. Well, I don't want to lose her as a friend, so I guess I won't respond. Unless, I think of a way to let her know that I am not interested in her. This is how my last relationship started, and, it did not end well. I don't want to repeat that mistake.
iJester Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Yeah, so grow some ****ing balls and tell her it's not gonna happen, that's what needs to change. I don't really care either way, you're gonna be the one that has to deal with it..just tryna help.
Author Desensitized Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 Yeah, so grow some ****ing balls and tell her it's not gonna happen, that's what needs to change. I don't really care either way, you're gonna be the one that has to deal with it..just tryna help. I appreciate the help. I just ended up telling her that I am a pretty busy guy, but I'll hangout with her from time to time. She seemed to understand.
iJester Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 That was a legitimate attempt..I think. My prediction: You're gonna get drunk and bang her. Calling it now.
Author Desensitized Posted July 9, 2011 Author Posted July 9, 2011 That was a legitimate attempt..I think. My prediction: You're gonna get drunk and bang her. Calling it now. Okay, so maybe you were right. I did end up having sex with her, BUT, we weren't drunk. So, you were partially right... I don't know, nothing seems to have changed after we did that, and she doesn't mind just being friends with me. Was amazing sex near the beach, though. ^_^
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