claudiasmile Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Hello I would like some help and opinions if you have some time... Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago after a three yr relationship. We have kept in contact. We have both moved on - I think !! I found out the other week that he has been seeing a woman for three months. I asked if she was OK about us still meeting up sometimes and he said it doesn't matter what she thinks as it's only a rebound relationship. Now I think three months is quite a long time and that it is now verging on a proper relationship. I don't want to make things difficult for his new girlfriend and feel if I was in her shoes I wouldn't be happy if my new bf went out with his ex for drinks and meals. What would you guys do in this instance? He doesn't seem too bothered about her opinions on this and wants to continue being friends with me. If it was a proper relationship I would back off, just a fling then I probably wouldn't so much.
ScienceGal Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Don't meet up with him for drinks and dinner if he is seeing someone. He is trying to keep you hanging on... don't do it. His disrespect for the other woman is NOT good. He should care what she thinks... after 3 months of being with her! If you're looking for him to come back to you, then you need to cut ties. He won't leave her as long as he feels secure he has your attention. When you take back the power and do what's best for you, then he will have to make a decision. And when you're ready, move on and meet someone that will want to be with you and respect you. If your ex doesn't get his act together by then... HIS LOSS! Good luck
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