Author Depressed Lad Posted July 12, 2011 Author Posted July 12, 2011 you are going to waste that precious time over a girl that posts on twitter "too many men".../QUOTE] This is a very good point...
Author Depressed Lad Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 So it turns out she got back with the lad she DUMPED for me!!! She got rid of him and got with me... And now for some reason she has got back with him and is declaring to the whole world that she is the happiest she has ever been... I stupidly broke NC and looked, and haven't since.. But it has done my head in, how can she move on so quickly when I am in bits?
dreamscape123 Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 how can she move on so quickly when I am in bits? Now that is a question a lot of us ask my friend.... Myself included... and its a painful one to have to think about too.... But from the way she seems to have behaved towards you and in herself, I would honestly say you are better off without this girl...
Nohbody Posted July 21, 2011 Posted July 21, 2011 Don't let her see you sweat. She's the enemy now - it may not always be this way, but right now you have to treat her that way, reconceptualize your entire relationship. He who controls the past controls the present. He who controls the present controls the future. Big brother loves you.
timber888 Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 dude, the same thing recently happened to me. After my ex broke up with me, we kept hanging out/hooking up, except she always made it seem like she was doing me a favor. Constant hints about how I wasn't good enough, chipping away just like you said. This went on for 6 MONTHS... I mean I was pathetic doing whatever she said. This kept up right until she found a new man. I was devestated and my ego/confidence was completely destroyed. Here's where it gets good though. After the new man came in the picture I was finally disgusted enough with myself as well as her to completely walk away. Went strict NC. Fast forward 2 months later... My confidence is back. I'm feeling good again. I've got 30 missed calls from her in my phone. Last night she called me 9 times in a row and I finally picked up. She admitted she couldn't stop thinking about me... and I basically told her to stop calling me. Just go NC. It will drive her crazy that she's not a "princess" to you anymore.
Sebstian Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Don't let it get to you mate! She's weak and desperate for attention. She's not having a great time as it might seem to you. She posts all that s..t just to get your attention. She's now with somebody she dumped for you, for sure she's not happy being with somebody she lost respect for a long time ago. She settles with second and third best because she's screwed and cant be on her own. Don't look back, hold NC, enjoy your holiday and forget about that looser b1itch!
Sugarkane Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I say leave her to all these "so called lads". Hopefully she'll treat them like crap too and also cheat on them. Good Riddance to garbage!
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