nessa1988 Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 So about 3 months ago one of my co-workers just starts to call me everyday in the office. He then gives me his number and we start to text and he suggest that we just go hang out. We go out to eat as friends and all that good stuff and we eventually tell eachother we like eachother. After a week of this we decided to make it offical. Now For about a month of me going to his house he is telling me how great I am and how he wants to meet my kid. ( Iam not one for just putting my kid in any guys life). So he goes on telling me how I need to just give him a chance that it could lead to great things (keep in mind we already had sex at this point). Then a few weeks ago after I come back from vegas he tells me he wants to be best friends and thats all. I made it clear to him that's not what I wanted; all I wanted with him. After a week of being so called friends he decides that I really do want you; I like having you over and being with you. Only thing is He dont text me every morning like he use to, he dont ask me out like he use to, and he calls him self a real ******* for me to get use to it. he is only 20 and I am 22! I hate playing games and I keep thinking that maybe he will come around or maybe I am just thinking way to much into (as he says)! Do you think I am wasting my time and getting played? I could use any advice because I just can't get him out my mind and I dont want to stick around to get hurt later on.
smudge21 Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Sounds like he's confused about what he really wants, so it's hard to say whether you should stick it out or not. You may find that by doing so things eventually work out for you both, but then again, it could all go wrong. You're both very young and I really don't believe anyone knows what they truly want at that age, but that's fine. I think if it's worth the fight and you do really care, then you should have a serious talk. Tell him exactly how you feel (repeat what you've said here to a bunch of strangers). Be totally honest and ask him to respect you by being honest in return. One thing to keep in mind is the situation of working together - that can have a strain on any relationship, especially when things don't work out.
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