maudiorocks Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 I'm 25 and I've been very unsuccessful in my dealings with women in the past 5 years since college. I was friends with mostly girls during college. Now all of my friends are guys. There are almost no peripheral women that I encounter regularly. The women I do see regularly are all attached to people I know. Somehow none of these women have any female friends. Since the last 8-9 or so years of my life have been with women as friends only I feel like I've lost "it". Can someone give me some advice on the key things between treating women as friends vs love interests so that the next rare occurrence that I meet a new single woman, I can let her know that I'm interested.
Bullet Proof Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 I'm 25 and I've been very unsuccessful in my dealings with women in the past 5 years since college. I was friends with mostly girls during college. Now all of my friends are guys. There are almost no peripheral women that I encounter regularly. The women I do see regularly are all attached to people I know. Somehow none of these women have any female friends. Since the last 8-9 or so years of my life have been with women as friends only I feel like I've lost "it". Can someone give me some advice on the key things between treating women as friends vs love interests so that the next rare occurrence that I meet a new single woman, I can let her know that I'm interested. I would suggest making a move fairly quickly during the dating stages. Don't try to be their 'friend' first because it will hard for the women to see you as anything more than a friend if/when you finally do make a move!
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