sprightlee Posted April 22, 2004 Posted April 22, 2004 Well, I guess I have a common problem...I am trying to choose between two guys. They are both wonderful, and I really can't decide. Please help.... One is 31, successful, cultured, well-traveled, educated, fun, and we get along fantastically. Also, guy #1 is into the same hobbies that I am, and we share more of the same values. The other is 20 (I am 21, just so you know.) and achingly handsome, sweet, sometimes silly, and incredibly affectionate, but he still lives with his parents. The problem is the age thing...I don't generally date younger men because they aren't mature enough for me. The main problem is, if guy #1 is so great, why do I have so much trouble passing by guy #2?? Guy #2 has much less to offer me, but I find him irresistible. Is it a shallow physical attraction? Hormone overload? Anyway, the big question of course is, WHO do I choose? I have been seeing them both, sans commitment and I really want to pick one of them so I can move into something more serious. I'd appreciate some advice, and I'm willing to give more details, if necessary....Thanks.
YoungSuccesful Posted April 22, 2004 Posted April 22, 2004 Seriously...im like guy #2 If you are looking for a serious relationship...dont pick me(or guy#2) He could very well be in a serious relationship and it could be great but chances are the BEST serious realtionship opportunity is with guy#1 Has he been married or engaged before? If not, I dont know...no guy THAT GREAT has never been married or engaged... Hope this helps
Author sprightlee Posted April 22, 2004 Author Posted April 22, 2004 You make an excellent point, and as far as I know, guy #1 has been engaged, but not married. Is that a really bad sign? And what is it about you #2 types that women are so drawn to?
YoungSuccesful Posted April 22, 2004 Posted April 22, 2004 No...not a bad sign necessarily... We are usually very attractive and confident...and loving(I like being very very affectionate) I guess women are drawn to that...plus we usually make the first moves which most women appreciate... This guy may be the same...Me and guys like me have often been called the epitamy of "THE TYPE" ... you know...most girls when there young and dont know what they want say I want a TALL, DARK HAIRED, ATHLETIC, BLUE-EYED, CHARMING guy Thats why I think... I hope it works out for guy#2 b/c its me but honestly, the 31 year old sounds pretty darn good too
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